I’ve been talking to this man for two weeks now. We wenton our first date it lasted 6 hours, then he wanted to seeme the next day and that date lasted 7 hours. Yes hewined and dined me as he should. I had a good time onboth dates. I do like him, and he has voiced that he likesme. There’s just a lot of things that I’m not comfortablewith…
1- on our first date he asked me who I was texting cause Ichecked my phone.
2- he keeps on insisting on taking me home.. I told himI’m not comfortable with strangers knowing where I live.
3- he claims that he knows me a lot…. ? Again yeswe’ve been talking nonstop for two weeks, yet thatdoesn’t mean you know me
4- he told me if i entertain other men then he is done withme. Last night he literally gave me a
Ultimatum saying “ I won’t talk to other men and told meto put it on something. Which I didn’t do that. Cause we’renot in a relationship o don’t owe him that. He said he’snot talking to other people so he said he’s not going towaste his time on me putting in all this effort if I’mspeaking to other men?
I know I should stay clear what’s y’all advise?
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You absolutely should stop talking to him because the reality is, is you don’t know him and you can’t 100% say that he is telling the truth that he isn’t talking to other people, and even if he isn’t talking to other people in my opinion that’s a super huge red flag that he’s making it that known that he isn’t talking to other people when you two have been talking for two weeks of his life. He’s acting quite possessive and also pushing boundaries acting like this is your third or fourth month talking. And him holding you accountable to spending that much time with him is super super immature and clingy.
Too many red flags, so follow your guy instinct.