Who is a weirdo me or my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So last night i sent him "good night"

He didn't answer to it.

This morning he sents me "good morning"

I answer the same and send quick voice saying i know what caused me feeling seek on Friday, turns out lactose intolerant and wish him good day

To which he says:good now you know what cause your sickness, i was reading smth on google and had to pause. So ill go back and read it againok, bye have a nice day too.

Like what? it feels like saying to me im interrupting him from searching smth on google.

Oh wow what bs is this. was it fucking necessary?

Im not sending him no messages whole day, he can f off

[AviatorTom]

Since you asked, you're the weirdo. A goodnight or goodmorning text doesn't need a reply. He's just bring honest, trlking you why he didn't reply because you told him you expected one. Stop thinking that a text requires an immediate reply... it doesn't. Some texts require no reply.

And now you overreact to his perfectly normal actions, like a spoiled brat.

[Asker]

Im not a brat
But why saying that my answer is interrupting him from reading google
Is it necessary?
It was not necessary he could say the same text but without saying "i was reading smth and now ill go back to read it again. bye"
Wtf
I dont demand inmediate answer
I dont get the need is saying im interrupting him

[AviatorTom]

You asked for opinions and several have given them to you. It's interesting that you fight back on every one of them. Why do you ask for an opinion if you will only accept the answer that agrees with you?

[Anonymous]

It seems like there might be a miscommunication or some tension between you and your boyfriend. It's essential to have an open and honest conversation to understand each other's feelings and resolve any issues. It's not about being a "weirdo," but rather about effective communication and mutual understanding in a relationship.

[Asker]

Was it nevessaryto point out he is reading smth?

[BigDog1989]

He was just saying, glad you got what you needed, that he's doing something and that he'll get back to you

Don't INTERNALIZE.

[Asker]

What internalize means

[BigDog1989]

making it about you, when its not

[Asker]

Well but whats the need of saying that
He basically said im interupting him

[BigDog1989]

He was basically telling you, congrats, I NEED TO GO

[In_Trance]

Both

[Asker]

🩶🤖

[BLP11520]

He is and not you

[Asker]

Why you think so?

[BLP11520]

He is not very thoughtful

[Asker]

Why so
I dont like it