If a guy stares at you but hasn’t approached you in years does it mean he is not that attracted to you?

[Anonymous]

He used to find me attractive but I never gave him any signals that I like him back. He heard rumors that I like him from his friend and tried to make it obvious that he looks at me but never approached me.

Yes probably not that attracted

can't tell/ maybe he is shy

[Fromdusktilldawn]

most guys never approach since women can be really ugly when it comes to rejection. Some will make fun of you, post it social media or even say you harrass them

[Loos85743]

Move on it doesn’t matter. If he liked you he would approach.

[Asker]

It’s always only the girls that say tbat

[Loos85743]

Wel then go ask him out even though women shouldn’t chase men. Like what do you want us to say

[Asker]

The truth

[spartan55]

'women shouldn't chase men' Says who? All women who think all they need to do is show up and avoid even the chance of rejection. No one has to do any chasing anyway.

[Anonymous]

He might just be incredibly shy, but he should have made an effort a long time ago.

[Asker]

He doesn’t have much relationship experience, that’s for sure