If a guy knows you like him and only stares from afar but never approaches you does it mean he is not attracted?

[Anonymous]

[Nifrayu]

I'm guessing you are also staring at him and also not approaching.

[Asker]

Yes but I don’t know how he feels about me

[Nifrayu]

Maybe he is sending you a hint in the form of his gaze.

[ProbablyClueless]

That, or it means he doesn't know if he could see himself dating her.

[BigDog1989]

A girl i like, knows i like her, and she likes me back (i obviously know she does), yet, she won't give me the time of day. Why?

[Anonymous]

No. He could just be shy really shy. That's usually how I get.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. I don't approach the majority of the women I find attractive.

[Asker]

But if you knew that one of them was crushing on you hard?

[Opinion Owner]

Well then she needs to convey that doesn't she. The simple fact of the matter is I KNOW most women I find attractive do not find me attractive. I'm not going to waste either of ours time.

[spartan55]

How does he know you like him?

[Asker]

A friend of him told him I liked him

[spartan55]

Lol, so you are relying on that? I would say he doesn't know. Even if he did he likely didn't believe it. Aren't you all too old for go betweens?

[AjayOnTheInternet]

The self-doubt is getting to him.

[Asker]

He seems more confident lately though but he is single

[AjayOnTheInternet]

Maybe he likes that your into him, which boosted his confidence. If you want to settle it slip him your number.

[Asker]

Ok but if he is confident now and still doesn’t approach me does it mean he is not really interested and just flattered?

[AjayOnTheInternet]

Well depends, what makes you think he knows you like him. If it was like a friend or someone that told him, he could just not believe them.
If you straight up told him you like him, then he's just flattered.

[Asker]

He noticed that I stalked him online and his friend told him :/

[Asker]

So he only stares at me because he wants to boost his confidence?

[AjayOnTheInternet]

You stalking him online doesn't tell him your into him really. He's probably eyeing you because he hopes it's true, just hasn't seen a for sure sign yet. He won't ask you out, just because you looked at his social.

[Asker]

His friend told him that I asked about him

[AjayOnTheInternet]

Well maybe he knows you like him, or he's oblivious. Either way it wouldn't hurt to ask, or slip him your number. If his friends and him already know what do you got to lose. It'll put your mind at ease.

[Asker]

it would hurt if he would reject me or lead me on :/

[AjayOnTheInternet]

But it'll hurt longer if you never find out, try giving him an obvious flirty compliment and see how he takes it and go from there. Get the point across and get an answer, so you can know if you have to move on or not.
Guys can be just as afraid of rejection as women. Guys just realize girls are less likely to be the one to ask so they push past the fear. Once you get turned down enough you realize it's nothing really but a question.

[Emanon25]

Not really, he could be attracted but shy.

[boggboss]

Or shy

[BarryLiverstone]

True