Would it be weird if I told her I want to selfharm?

[Anonymous]

i was taking to a high school old teacher a week ago she is 33 only a few years older then me
i write her but she does not reply much to me anymore she said she is busy.

i know she has work as she is a teacher but i need someone to talk to.

if i told her about wanting to selfharm i'm weird.

[provokeesmokee]

Yeah, you need to be talking to a psychologist about that, bud. Not a former teacher.

Don't trauma dump on random people or even people you know if you don't have their permission or give them a heads up.

Hire a therapist, get yourself the help you need.

[HelpfulWoman]

Or go to a therapist and say that.
Otherwise you're just wanting to tell her for attention.

[Asker]

is it bad if i attention. from you?

[Asker]

from her i meant

[HelpfulWoman]

well yes because using "i wanna self harm" is manipulative, a huge red flag, and absolutely scummy behaviour. That you even need to ask that is dodgy to fuck.

[madhatters4]

is your desire to tell her because she is the person you most feel comfortable telling?

sure you should tell her if that is the case.

[jahaims]

Yeah that is weird. You guys aren't even friends. That is what therapy is for.

[boggboss]

why do u think or expect her to be your emotional support that crazy manipulative and if it backfires she will cut u off