So this has happened more times than I like to admit lol. I am on a few dating apps, I match with a guy and it starts off with just a casual chat, some flirting which then turns into the guy making it sexual, if I’m in the mood I’ll play along and then they ask for my Snapchat. We sext and send nudes and then they block me either the next day or a few hours later. Today it happened the same except we’ve been talking for a little while, planned to meet up for fun then he blocked me after begging me to come over. Can someone tell me why guys do this? It honestly just baffles me. It’s happened a few times and it’s got me feeling shit about myself. I know I shouldn’t let some dumb guys make me feel this way but I am.
No clue but they either just used you to get off and know they won't do seconds or they finessed you for your nudes, possibly selling them on onlyfans or something for all you know, it seems like a effective scam, turn random women on have them send nudes, cut off contact with them and then sell those nudes on a site that seems to be designed for that.
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Because their goal writing with you was sex or nudes. So when they got it they blocked you. There are guys on dating apps that are just bored so they play around and when they get what they want, they break off contact.
Really? You can't figure this out?
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How does it baffle you? They are using you to get nude pics. What is confusing about this?
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Probably because they're using your. Or worse, as Chico suggested, selling them to OnlyFans or other porn sites.
Never. Send. Nudes.
I feel you.. Maybe they just used you and didn't care to meet, or they are in relationships.. I mean either wau, theu used you to get off and after that wanted nothing to do with you.. I'm sorry that hapoened to you.
You're either too easy or not hot enough for them to bother more than once.. are you fat or something? Lol.. maybe get involved with legit guys next time..
Some guys will feel guilty of their behavior. So they use the interaction to jack off and then block the person so they don’t have to talk to them next time
Sounds kinda weird to me... guys would probably like them as something to look at when they jerk off. Maybe slow down a bit with them?
What they imagined you'd look like naked and what you actually look like naked more than likely did not match up.
They got what they wanted, I guess. For the record, I wouldn’t block you for that 😉
Maybe they think you're a catfish
Maybe meeting up made them nervous.
Don’t ever do that
Umm what kind of nudes did you send?
No idea. Do they send you mudes?
Maybe they're not attracted to you
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