JUST WONDERING BOYS PLEASE HELPPP?

[claudia32]

ARE GUYS SCARED TO ASK THEIR CRUSH IF THEY WANT TO BE THEIR girlfriend IN THE TALKING STAGE? AND HOW DO BOYS KNOW IF THEY REALLY LIKE A GIRL A LOT?

[Anonymous]

About as scared as you are. You have to look at it from a guys point of view. He's going to get rejected 9 out of 10 times. If a woman faced that level of rejection she wouldn't even date. So already guys are risking more. Because the guy doesn't even know concretely who she is. He has to date her to find out fully. The problem is women don't even consider the fact that men are taking risks as well. And most women today don't even want Mr. Right, just Mr. Right now. A guy knows he's risking rejection for a woman that probably going to cheat on him anyhow.

So to answer your question a guy is only going to ask a woman out that has really earned that honor. And most women today do very little to earn that honor.

[236color]

All people are affected rejection. Some so much they can't do anything. When the pain of loneliness overcomes the fear of rejection, they will do something. How do they know when they really like a girl? How do you know when you really like a boy?

Now younger folks often make choices that don't work out, but lessons have to be learned.

[Curmudgeon]

"ARE GUYS SCARED TO ASK THEIR CRUSH IF THEY WANT TO BE THEIR girlfriend IN THE TALKING STAGE?"

Does a bear shit in the woods? Is the Pope Catholic? (OK, THIS current one is debateable say my devout friends, but you get the idea). Of course he is scared. If he didn't care it would not be scary!

[glennos89]

Im pretty picky for some reason, I'm not considering myself high value at all but the girls I fall in love with usually carry some sort of energy aura that instantly connects with mine. I find it very difficult to talk to them because I immediately shut down inside not able to think normally anymore or to start a meaningfull conversation. It really sucks

[DryGermanGuy]

As always: Communication, communication, communication! It's bi-directional, you know?

[AmeerX]

I have always straightly told the people whomever I liked that I like them. I know it never worked for me though. Being hopeless romantic as I am, I get things to heart

[LiamJHayden]

It depends on the guy. I am not afraid of interactions at all, but I would likewise not ask someone with whom I've spent no in-person time to be exclusive.

[jshm2]

No. though Immature/shy guys will often beat around the bush.

[dean53AU]

I was always worried she would say no if I asked, use to be shy as a teen but not these days

[pickles77]

Yeah just like how girls need fore play before sex guys need the same thing before they ask you out