Can a man marry me if I have the social skills and personality of a toddler and am super people pleasing and have the personality of a slave?

[Toylet20]

• I do a lot of butt kissing and genuinely look up to others, and might fawn over them verbally if I get comfortable with them but otherwise I do it internally like just look up to people and admire them like they’re way better than me which I truly think they tend to be.
  
  
• I can’t have adult conversations. Everything I say is pretty vapid. And nice. I’ve been called too nice.
  
  
• eugenia cooney is my doppelgänger personality wise.
  
  
• Like it’s pretty funny how similar we are personality wise.

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that everyone has different personality traits and social skills, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer to whether someone can find a partner. People have varying preferences and priorities when it comes to relationships. While some may be drawn to individuals with different personality traits, there are others who appreciate kindness and sincerity.

If you feel that your social skills and personality traits are causing you distress or impacting your life in negative ways, you may want to consider personal development and self-improvement to help you become more comfortable in social situations and develop more mature conversational skills. However, it's also crucial to be true to yourself and not change who you are just to fit someone else's expectations.

Ultimately, the key to a healthy and fulfilling relationship is finding someone who accepts you for who you are and appreciates your unique qualities. If you're concerned about your social skills or self-esteem, seeking guidance from a therapist or counselor could be beneficial.

[ThatFellow]

Yes but you’ll have to figure out who you want and be upfront and intentional about what you want.


For one, be sure the guys you’re interested in see and understand your signals.


And when you get there, be upfront about what you want out of marriage and work out strong communication with your partner. If you’re a people pleaser, you’ll feel a natural desire to seek peace at the expense of a balanced relationship where you both support each other and talk through issues before they become problems.

[provokeesmokee]

Plenty of men would be happy to have you, but you're gonna need to manage being both toddler stupid and the household manager, cause he's gonna tire of being your caretaker.

[AngryCarl2]

If you weren't named after a lavatory I'd say you were the perfect wife.

[Toylet20]

Aww thank you I appreciate that ❤️

[exitseven]

sounds like a match made in heaven.

[Toylet20]

Thanks but who is a match?

[Masterodd]

yes, I would marry you.

[Toylet20]

Thank you 😀