Is it likely that he will come back?

[Anonymous]

I put much effort in our relationship but he said he is tired of my complaining and have been comfortable doing his own thing. I told him that goodbye for some time on Wednesday and now we don't talk for 5 days. Do you think he will come back at some point? Or I have to break no contact?

[Holsen]

Do what’s natural to you but bear in mind that you are not dependent on him even if you have invested so much into the relationship, so if you feel like it’s more stressful that it should be consider it a sign of luck that things turned out this way!!

[Asker]

Okay

[FutanariEnjoyer]

You both need a reason from each other for the relationship to come back. While arguments and fights are bound to happen in any relationship between two people, a break-up can forever have a lasting effect, given that you two will now forever be under the impression that the love you have for one another is fragile and temporary. You need him to be more understanding and compassionate with your emotions, and he needs you to peg him with a giant 12-inch long horse cock.

[sheikalana]

Respect his wishes and move on. No one knows if he will come back or not and you shouldn't be waiting for him.

[TdotRep2023]

Totally agree never give power to another human being over your emotions.

[Sparkie460]

If you didn't complain all the time he might come back if he saw that you changed. I wouldn't count on it though

[Asker]

I did complain and we had fights since he was always too busy for me.

[Sparkie460]

Maybe he was always busy because he didn't want to hear you complaining

[Asker]

Yeah but before that he was always busy too. He was always sweet to me and tried take like even 5 minutes a day to talk to me. But than messages started to sound dry and even 24 hours not hearing from him and I was sad. Especially since it triggered me. I was in a bad relationship before and my ex started doing this to me when he cheated on me. My health condition started to be worse and I told him I am sick and what happend to me before but he only said I am sorry not taking care of you than again ghost me for 20 sth hours... and I couldn't handle it so I vent to him but he said what can I say every time you dump everything at me...

[Sparkie460]

He probably won't come back. It sounds like he lost interest in you. If I were you, I wouldn't wait for him.

[Asker]

I know just it hits me so hard and I have been crying much every day bc he promised me much and I was believing it... so it hurts me

[spartan55]

Was this a breakup?

[Asker]

I don't know lol. YEAH...

[spartan55]

So, not like taking a break?

[Asker]

I don't know... probably taking a break... he didn't say break up so I am confused

[spartan55]

I wouldn't spend too much time on it. He's not coming back.