Why would he look this up?

[Anonymous]

So I went on YouTube on my boyfriends computer we have two kids together and last night one of them was sick so I stayed up with them. As I got curious I was looking at history and in the middle of the night he was searching “girl pees her pants” & “girl desperate to pee” Should I be worried? What does that mean? Is he getting off girls pissing on themselves?

[WilmaReportu]

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[Asker]

Offensive to publicly discuss an anonymous persons search history right

[_Maya_]

Eh yeah sounds like a fetish to me. I've seen that mentioned on this site before... and worse to be honest. I guess as long as he isn't hurting anyone but I do find it a really strange thing to fetishize. It must turn him on or something. I don't know what is sect or appealing about a girl needing to pee or actually watching one do it. To me that is just weird considering it is a bodily function we all have not girl girls. Talk to him about it if you are concerned or grossed out for that matter.

[Asker]

Yea it kinda freaked me out I’m pretty sure he’s jerking off to it which sucks cause I noticed he looked it up Friday night while I was in bed and he's either on the couch or restroom so why it must be something that gets him excited cause we didn’t have sex that night
I have been already been suspecting he jerks off specially nights he stays up on the ps5
It is weird and gross
But unfortunately he’s not someone I can talk about I took a screenshot of what I found and even then he will deny it

[_Maya_]

It is weird and gross but if you can believe it I've heard worse on this site.

[Asker]

Of course
I’m not stupid I know he’s watching porn jerking off more than actually being in bed with me
I’m honestly just so tired of him he’s nothing I would ever be with I am trying to finish school so I can be on my own just trying to play it smart I just can’t live independently on my own with two kids
Sometimes I don’t even know why I look at his shit I know I will always find something

[tfan1]

If he likes girls peeing - let him watch you peeing in the toilet. It is a wonderful and beautiful sight to see that jet of water come out of seemingly nowhere. I love to watch my wife pee. She thinks it’s strange and doesn’t understand why I like to watch her but since it’s not dangerous or disgusting - she’s ok with letting me watch her. 👍🙂🚽

[Asker]

I don’t mind it at all he respects my privacy but I really don’t mind him being in the restroom with me while peeing he seems very uninterested about it so that’s why I was taken aback

[BoopBoopBeep]

Because somebody said "wow there's a lot of pissing videos on youtube" so he went to check. Or somebody said japan has a game show all about it and you can find near anything on youtube, or literally a dozen other reasons that i can think of with only a minimum of cerebral activity. Stop being nosey and you won't have to overthink as much stuff.

[Asker]

At 2 am while your kid is sick and I just got discharged from the hospital
Doesn’t it sound more like this makes me horny somehow?

[spartan55]

@asker
What does you being horny have to do with it? I guess you are going to pretend snooping through his YouTube history is OK... what a surprise.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Even if that were true, so what? Maybe John at work said it makes HIM horny so he wanted to see what all the fuss is about. Maybe the chick in the thumbnail looked like his high school math tutor... like I said, maybe a dozen other things. I've already given you 4 with zero effort. You're overthinking AND rationalizing your bad behavior.

[Asker]

Typical boy gaslighting behavior
Cause watching people pee is so normal

[Asker]

I know I was wrong at even looking at his history but usually I do that out of curiosity not really to find something necessarily I was shocked that’s all

[Asker]

@boopboopbeep
My bad behavior?
Cause looking at YouTube videos of girls peeing themselves is something so good
This is strange guys have such sick fantasies and it seems like society has just justified it with you guys just being guys
When in reality it’s not sane behavior to want to see girls pee themselves

[BoopBoopBeep]

I watched pig racing for an hour last night. Doesn't mean I'm going to go join the league. If the fact that your man's google history has a video of some chick pissing in it is the biggest problem in your life congrats on living on easy street.

You know what went through my head first when I saw the weird shite in my partner's view list? Nothing, because I wouldn't know, because I'm not going to snoop around.

[Zenpanda]

Sounds like a pee kink to me.
Source: me, I have a pee kink 😅

[Asker]

Oh ok yea that’s what I was thinking
I don’t know if I should just ignore it or ask him about it?

[Zenpanda]

You can always talk about kinks and fantasies, but don't expect him to talk about it and don't bring up this specifically.
He might be ashamed or just has it as a fantasy, not wanting it in reality.
But he might also just be afraid of your reaction if he were to bring it up.
Because lots of people just act disgusted and label the people with this link as disgusting.
So either let it be or talk about kinks and fetishes in general.
That'd be my advice.

[Asker]

Yes that’s what I am thinking that it’s more of a thing he wouldn’t want to smell or really experience

But now I’m thinking back at all the times I’m like “omg I have to pee so bad “
And I’m struggling to hold it and he looks so uninterested and almost just ignores me and looks at me funny
I think I talked to him a while ago unknowingly of this potential interest of him that I had heard a guy talk about a man being into a piss fetish because his first time happened like that and he acted grossed out so I totally see what you are saying

[Jbear27]

Well if you’re constantly saying out loud that you need to pee really bad. Maybe he is worried you have a medical condition and was trying to do some research. You never know. Don’t just jump right into the kink department. My ex wife had a hard time holding her pee and it was annoying at times. It would intrude on some of our spontaneous sexual acts and kill the mood. So I probably looked it up as well at one point to see if it was a thing or if she was avoiding certain scenarios.

[Asker]

@Jbear27 the only reason I thought it was a kink is cause he’s looking this up at 2 am
And 11 pm both times we didn’t have sex that night and it seems like this is why cause both times he jerked off to it is what I’m assuming
It seems like it was more of a thing he’s into not trying to find out what’s wrong medically with me

[Jbear27]

Anything is possible I suppose. I knew a girl a long time ago who said she went out with a guy that wanted her to put saran wrap on his face and pee on him lol. Some people 🤣

[Asker]

@Jbear27 waoo it’s just a thing you hear every where but it’s so weird to think I’m with someone that likes something like that
But I might just be overthinking
Can’t imagine all my exes fantasies or fetishes were that I never knew about

[Jbear27]

For reals. Mine is a little lame. I enjoy it when my partner slaps me across the face when she is riding me. The pain pleasure response I guess or maybe a shift in dominance? I dunno. But it turns me on.

[Billlewis]

He probably has a pee fetish.

[Asker]

We’ve been together for 7 years you don’t think he’d ask for something involving that?

[Billlewis]

It can often take a long time for a guy to admit he has a particular fetish, especially if it's a weird one.

[Asker]

Should I just ignore it?

[jjj101010]

Why be worried?

[Asker]

@ravvid I’m not worried but i was confused

[jjj101010]

Maybe he was interested or just that he liked it

[RavVid]

seems like.