What would you think spontaneously of a man suddenly dropping a glass after locking his eyes with a girl?

[Anonymous]

He immediately broke the glass lol.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like a humorous and unexpected moment where the man's distraction or nervousness from locking eyes with the girl led to an accident. It's a common trope in romantic comedies and can be a funny or endearing moment in real life too.

[Asker]

Lol I thought the same about the romantic comedy 😂 there was no funny stuff. The guy is often blushing around and often avoids eye contact

[Opinion Owner]

It seems like the man's behavior is more about nervousness and shyness rather than humor. In that case, his actions might reflect his feelings of discomfort or attraction towards you. It's not uncommon for people to become flustered and awkward around someone they're interested in.

[Asker]

Yeah it is consistent. The guy is indeed getting awkward around me and struggles looking at me. He became clumsy in a more discrete way several times. Sometimes he comes around and talks only to people around me…to the point he is almost ignoring me.

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds like the guy might have a crush on you, which can explain his nervousness, avoidance of eye contact, and seemingly clumsy behavior. Sometimes, people act this way when they're interested but don't know how to express their feelings. He might be trying to get closer to you by engaging with people around you as a way to indirectly interact with you. If you're interested, you could try initiating a conversation to make him feel more at ease.

[Asker]

Yes thank you :) the problem is that I tried lately and the guy is clearly comfortable with all my friends (including girls as I observed), looking at them without problem, and when I try to engage discussion he almost backs off and looks elsewhere. Lol. Last time he was trying as well to include myself into the discussion (between him and my friend) and he was almost ignoring me. Lol

[Asker]

and the guy is in his 40s, not a young boy :) but blushing very easily … (which I find cute!)

[Asker]

* I was trying to include myself sorry

[Opinion Owner]

It's interesting that he seems comfortable around others but becomes more distant when you try to engage him. His behavior might be due to his shyness or nervousness around you specifically, perhaps because he has deeper feelings. Age doesn't necessarily eliminate shyness or blushing, and it can still be endearing. If you're interested in pursuing a connection with him, you could consider having a more direct and private conversation to see if he opens up. Sometimes, one-on-one interactions can help people feel more at ease.

[Asker]

Once we were sitting with a friend he was extra caring, smiling at me and so on.. she left earlier and I was alone. So I thought maybe we would engage a bit the conversation. But he clearly changed his behavior, looking much more insecure, giving quick side eyes, he nearly stumbled and disappeared 😂

[Asker]

The guy is clearly someone normally very calm and collected.

[Kartdemon]

It never happens in real life. If it happened to you, he was faking it to get attention

[Asker]

I don’t think he faked it because it was in a bad position for him, talking publicly (so already having the attention) and he got embarrassed after that

[Anonymous]

😂😂😂

[Asker]

That was quite funny to see yes :) very smashing 😂