When a guy drinks out of a girl's coffee cup?

[Anonymous]

So what does it mean ''When a guy drinks out of a girl's coffee cup?''

(Cause don't guys who are in a relation ship do that )?

For example: Would a guy who cared and trusted a girl drink from the same cup?

[Undoubtable]

I don't know what to make of it if that's all you give me. Did he ask for a taste first? Did he do it funnily or crack a joke? Did you share a cup, or did he just have a sip of it? Did you order the coffee together? Did he buy you the coffee?

I don't mind drinking from the same cup as someone else, and certainly not a girl. If it's some sort of test or sign, the only thing that springs to mind is he might want to see if you got grossed out or not, seeing as girls are often less eager to drink and eat the same as a guy does. Because boys are gross ;p

[Asker]

he bought it

he asked why I wsnt drinking it and I said no drink it if you want it

and he did

[Undoubtable]

Well in that case, it's probably as simple as "hey, free coffee!". Guys don't let food or drink go to waste, if someone doesn't eat their portion of fries or all their pizza, it goes to me and anyone else with leftover appetite. I reckon it's not that different if someone didn't drink touch their coffee or soda.

[TheAnswerer]

Agreed. (Both with the answer and the comment.)

(+1)

[Undoubtable]

That's the big difference between men and women, you know. Girls eat what they feel like, while guys just feel like eating :P

[dave216]

You are right, almost indecipherable. Please practise your English a bit more and then post your question again.

[Asker]

What does my english skills have to do with this :)

please don't post anything if you don't have anything good to say :)

[dave216]

That is a ridiculous statement. All answers can not be good news, unless you expect me to often lie.

What that means is that you posted an assembly of words, a significant portion of them misspelled, with no identifiable sentence structure or punctuation. English has rules and there is a reason for it. It makes ones thoughts decipherable to one's readers. There is also the added benefit that following a few of those rules prevents you from appearing ignorant to anyone who happens to read what you wrote.

[Asker]

ok :)

[HGR15]

I don't think drinking from the same cup means anything. My guy friends an I share stuff al the time even guys I don't really know too well will share a water bottle with me or drink out of my cup if they wanna try it and I do the same (of course I ask tho lol) and it doesn't mean anything beyond "im thirsty"

[caution_614]

Not sure if it really means anything. I share drinks with my guy friends all the time (some have girlfriends/wives). I think it just means that you trust each other as friends and don't care about 'germs' or 'cooties'. Some people don't mind sharing food/drinks, while other people absolutely hate it.

[Undoubtable]

Yeah, this one. It implies a level of trust, not a level of interest. And now I felt like a cup of coffee, haha

[MarkHrdman]

you're not making any sense because you're asking 2 different questions as if theyre the same question.

A cup is a cup.

there's a good chance that the girls cup, looks better then the shitty old cup that hasn't been cleaned.

Its even more likely that a womans going to bother cleaning the cup over the shity old cup, so the male doesn't have to both cleaning it, or have to worry about leaving a mess.

It could be a power play to dominate a woman.

It could simply mean nothing at all. Without intent.

It could be a sexual preference because of the girl choosing a male who is so called safe to be around, ie friend zone and or regardless of circumstances of intimacy...

but for you to say to drink out of the same cup, in sub context..(after) really brings no meaning to your question.

Since you dont provide the context and only add it, in inclusion of addition circumstances.. as a possible senario which makes your question ingenuine.

Does the cup have anything in it for them to share?

Does the cup just simple be used before she uses it or after she uses it & is it cleaned before or after use?

This is why you dont make any sense unless you meant if a male trusts a woman to drink after she has drank from it. Its more then likely that you're not making any sense by not being clear because there's no point in your question, just like if oral sex happened between a guy and a girl. Pointless question.

[DermalPunch]

It means he had no issue entering her personal space. He is alsl implying that he would like to swap more than spit.

If he didn't ask, this strikes me as a person who likely doesn't respect boundaries. This small boundary infringement seems cute and intimate but, it is actually a minor red flag.

If you want a relationship say it.

If you think you're in a comittmed relationship based on signs and no actual addressing of the issue you aren't.

[tigerguy]

coffee thing - not far as I know, doesn't really mean anything

if a guy wanted to just get laid he would flirt, make up random sh*t, make her feel special, f*** her and leave and never call, don't just read something into the coffee thing

[cutekid]

I share drinks with my friends and I don't wanna get laid...thats friendship ;-)

[Anonymous]

he was thirsty, do I get my awesome point now?

[Asker]

ofc

[Opinion Owner]

what does that mean?

[Asker]

ofcourse

[Anonymous]

no one gives a shit