Why do people always think younger women (20s) are dumb and naive and that’s why men go for them? Why do we insult younger women so much?

[Anonymous]

[BourbonAndBacon]

That's a good question considering that girls mature sooner than boys it would seem like a younger woman would be a better match with an older man. However, a younger man faces far less scrutiny when dating an older woman even though most will agree he is less mature. But in all honesty, its none of anyone's business who dates who if they are of legal age. They should be more concerned about changing the legal age if its such a problem

[NamerOfStars]

The answer isn't hard to figure out: look at who's doing the insulting.

It's not quite as simple as "they're just jealous", though; it's also "they're disrupting the normal social order".

[Sunnybeach123]

It might not have to do with age.

[Sunnybeach123]

Plenty of very smart young women.

[Asker]

Ikr! I dated a guy 15 years older than me and some women got mad and said he only goes for me cuz I’m easier to manipulate 😭 I’m so confused…I have my own place and job, run my own life like if I was naive that wouldn’t be possible to do all by myself. Yet some of them had kids at 20 years old and have the audacity to coach me.

[Sunnybeach123]

I'll bet they were jealous of you. You have your own life and they don't. People say mean (and untrue) things to those they're jealous of.

[Asker]

Thank you 😊 yeah I seriously don’t get it. It’s really hurtful when someone throws words like that at you especially if you make a mistake (“oh it’s cuz you’re young and naive”) but when they make mistakes they’re off the hook

[Sunnybeach123]

They just look for excuses to get under your skin. They're petty and small (just remind yourself that you're better than them and they know it and that's why they look for excuses to give you trouble)

[Asker]

Thanks for your insight 🙏 I agree with you

[Sunnybeach123]

Very welcome 🙂