Is my coworker being nosey or trying to get to know me?

[Anonymous]

One of My male coworkers and i rarely work together. Since I’ve been with the company we’ve worked together once and we barely talked i gave him a little info about myself and we haven’t worked together since. Last night we worked together and he asked did i have a man and what were my weekend plans …. He also asked me three different times through our our shift was i still messing with my ex. He also asked why i was single. He made a joke saying he had big hands to hold big things (i am a bigger plus size girl)

Was he harmlessly flirting or just trying to make time pass since we had to work together for that day

[DJB72]

Testing the waters. Most guys won't want to make a move if a girl is in a relationship or not over one. It's too messy.

If you're 100% single and you like him, tell him. Ask him out. See what happens.

[Joshydavid25]

Seems like he's trying to get with you.. Otherwise, I don't know if he would be asking specifically about your weekend plans, and your "love" life repeatedly.. Or mentioned that he has big has to hold big things..

[Asker]

It’s been a few days he hasn’t asked me out

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, maybe he has a girl and was just flirting with you to butter you up.. Maybe he'll get to later on..

[Mansearching]

Being nosey and flirting. I-M-O boarderline harassment. No fellow employee needs to know all that. Off the clock and out for a drink is another. But its up to you to say anything.

[RedInnocent68]

It was definitely a flirt, an inappropriate one perhaps, but he’s being suggestive towards you.

[Alex8736]

He was beginning to get too personal. Small talk 1 and done is one thing but how you explained is getting too personal and what happens is the workplace starts becoming a hostile rumor mill

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, it was a form of him flirting with you.

[Jerre]

I’m sure he’s flirting with you, wants to go out with you or have sex with you.

[Asker]

He hasn’t asked me out it’s been a few days

[Jerre]

Perhaps you could make the first move

[Anonymous]

I think you should see if he wants to put something in your butt

[Naughtyboy71]

Flirting

[shortster]

Both?

[Leah2023]

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