Is he wanting more than sex?

[Anonymous]

So me and my childhood guy friend had sex ( agreed that was all it was ) we are sooo close and it was good he spends the night both times but this time and we stay up all night talking. This time he said “ I feel like you’re scared of me” I didn’t know how to answer so I said no I don’t think you’d put your hands on me and he looked confused. I don’t know what he meant by what he said and he got quiet and I asked what is he thinks about and he said me but wouldn’t tell me what. Is he catching feelings?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that's kinda wild. Hard to say what exactly he meant by saying you seem scared of him. Might not have meant anything bad by it, guys can say weird stuff sometimes without explaining right haha.

As for catching feelings, it's definitely possible I guess. Staying up all night talking after sex, getting kinda deep and personal - that's not super typical hookup behavior. And if he's thinking about you and getting in his feels but not saying what, yeah sounds like there could be more there on his end.

Only he knows for sure how he really feels. If you guys have been friends for so long there's obviously a connection beyond physical. But you'd have to talk to him openly to find out if he wants something more relationshippy or not. Up to you if that's what you want too.

Just be careful messing around with friends, things can get complicated. Maybe see how he acts next time you link up and go from there? Communicate what you each want so no one gets confused. Good luck figurin it all out!

[Anonymous]

Hate to say it, but you have probably been used.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he might be, so why not ask him?