Guys, Crush is now talking to me after ignoring me for 3 years?

[Anonymous]

I am an Asian. We don’t really date-date. I hd a crush on him in Med school. He ignored me when i told him i like him because i right up told him i want to marry him in future. Then in final year we talked again abut the possibility. He said no. Now after 2 years I contacted him and he’s cool. He talks. And he keeps talking about sexual topics. Which isn’t something I expected from him. The other day i told him im uncomfortable and he said he's sleepy and went away. He still doesn’t text himself. But when i talk he talks keenly but turns the conversation into sexual stuff. The other day i said you give the vibe that you ll just stay single and party forever and he was surprised. He said “wow 😂”.
is he into me?

[Summeroflove]

I would leave him be if he only wants to talk sex. He probably just wants a hook up. I would just drop it and leave it at that.

[Asker]

How would i know if he only wants a hopkup?

[Summeroflove]

Asker. I can’t read his mind. But what I am guessing is. He ignored you. That was rude. If someone won’t even talk to you. Then they aren’t worth your time.

It’s the fact that he just keeps talking about sec

[Summeroflove]

If he just tried turning every conversation into something sexual. Then it’s obvious that’s all he’s thinking about

[Asker]

He listens to other things too. I share memes and i tell him about my study schedule. And he answers things. Before this he didn’t even talk to me. But he asks me about things about sexual topics “do girls like xyz” “do girls like when guys do xyz”

[Summeroflove]

See. That’s the thing. I doubt he’s genuine. I would just ask him why he ignored you for years and now just wants to talk sexual stuff. To me it’s creepy and it’s weird.

I doubt he wants anything real

[Asker]

Is there anything i can do to make him think about something serious? I dont want to leave him. I live him. He knows i dont date. I've never dated anyone.

[Asker]

I love him*

[Summeroflove]

I don’t think it’s love. You don’t even really know him. You can love him as a perosn. But he’s being creepy and weird

[Asker]

Thankyou so much. Pray for me

[CalmUntilAbused]

Asian, going straight to marriage... Is Your name Yuno Gasai, by any chance? 😉

Back to serious... He's either addicted to... this kind of things or testing Your confidence from earlier (I mean, setting up a family kind of requires these things to happen).

Now back to light-heartedness (though not fully)... Stal... I mean, getting to know Him and His environment better would be helpful. If He's an addict, He screams trouble. Otherwise, You can give it a try.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Into that pussy perhaps, if you have more sexual convos than deep convos with him then that should speak numbers honestly

[couchweed92]

if you don’t date and you don’t have sex what do you do?

[Anonymous]

He only wants sexual relief.

[In_Trance]

What are you even doing?

[Anonymous]

You guys figure it out