Every since he got a girlfriend he has been very distant with me. For example, before he got one we would text a lot and he would often open up to me and we would talk about what he was going through. We would also joke around too. Not anymore. I didn’t understand what was going on at first until I started seeing him hang out with a girl. Not too much later he said they got into a relationship. Honestly I just want to see him happy, but it hurts that he has been extremely distant with me now. I don’t know what to do or even know what exactly is going on in his head for him to act this way. I have ideas, but I’m not completely sure and would like other people to help me figure this all out.
His focus and attention are on her. I'd give yourself lots of things to do to help distract your mind from him. In the meantime, still be friendly with him. Don't be crush-like, but still say hi and act as you'd normally act. Boys and girls/men and women can be friends even if they're not in a relationship and even if they have an SO. Be the mature one and show him how it's done.
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Why wpuld he act the same when he is now in a relationship especially when u have a crush on him would u want your partner to speak to a girl that had a crush on him?
He’s just trying to be loyal. He doesn’t wanna seem like a cheater with his new girlfriend. It’s nothing against you its just loyalty.
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There's nothing complicated here. He has a girlfriend so he backed off. Not sure what the big mystery is.
You had crush on him he never had that's why he has made a girlfriend.
He's got a girlfriend and she is consuming his time.
You're not his priority. His girlfriend is his priority.
Has no use for you now
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