Help! I’m falling in love with him, what to do to stop it?

[Anonymous]

In the beginning, he told me not to fall in love but his the one telling everyone I’m his girlfriend. He’s treating me like a girlfriend and like he loves me even though his words don’t match his actions. We already had sex and he does look for me here and there. 🥹🥹 he’s 6 years younger than me I’m 28 and his 22 but I don’t look my age that’s why I get younger guys that like me. I feel sad because I try my best to keep busy to not look for him but the way he treats me

[CalmUntilAbused]

What is His background? What are possible reasons for Him to tell You not to fall in love? It would be best if You had an honest conversation with Him about that. More likely than not, He's just being overly caring, but one situation where I could understand this is if He wanted to practice being a proper boyfriend for a girl He liked for a long time (though by Your description He went a lot too far for this explanation to even remotely add up).

[Tim2nice]

I can’t help you with that. Nobody can. Matters of heart are difficult to understand or control. It’s up to you what you wanna do