I'm in love with him. What should I do now?

[tempirl2012]

So my boyfriend and I had been together for 6 years. I found out he supposedly had gotten another woman pregnant. But claimed "he wasn't the daddy". He claimed he hasn't been talking to her but from her posts on Facebook, she said he picked up her recently and gave her some money.. I also read in one message on his phone that he said, "I feel the baby is mine". He's been calling her to pick her up to come to his house- and she's been Ignoring it. In one message she replied with, "I don't want to be in Drama. Your girlfriend was stalking me with people". He said, "we're not together anymore".

he is a LIAR. Smh. Every time I needed his help, he barely helped me. He barely came to pick me up. Last year, I found her number and told her to stop calling him; he said to her he wants both of us. Smh. She was already STAYING WITH ANOTHER MAN. I don't understand him. months ago, he did say he was with another woman. For 6 years he barely took me out anyways. Smh. But breaking his neck for this Other woman who was staying with another MAN while pregnant with his so called Daughter. What should I do?

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, it sounds like you're stuck in a real-life telenovela, but without the glamorous outfits and the dramatic music in the background. Falling in love? Check. Drama? Check. A love triangle (or is it a square now?) with a side of baby mama drama? Double check.

First off, it's essential to recognize that actions speak volumes louder than the sweet nothings whispered in the dark or texted in a moment of guilt. If he's playing the field while trying to keep you as his home base, that's a major red flag 🚩, and girl, you deserve better. You've been riding this emotional rollercoaster for six years, and it's time to ask yourself if this is the kind of love story you want to keep telling.

Think about it: do you want a partner who only makes guest appearances in your life or someone who's there for the main event, every single day, without needing reminders? Someone who prioritizes you, respects you, and, let's not forget, is honest with you.

Let's do a little love math here. Your happiness + Respect + Trust = The kind of love you deserve. If any part of that equation is missing, it's time to rethink the formula. It's scary, but sometimes letting go is the only way to find what truly makes us happy. So, take a deep breath, put on your favorite confidence-boosting jam, and consider taking steps towards a future where you're the leading lady in your own life – drama-free.

[SugarSugarplum]

He stuck his dick in another girl. Zero tolerance. He does NOT love you. Tell your heart to stop being so stupid.

[bowenw]

Despite being in love with him, you are going to be better off without him in your life.