Is there a way to respectfully ask a guy you’re getting to know to stop sharing shirtless pics/videos?

[Anonymous]

I know he’s hot, I don’t wanna killed the vibe and his masculinity. But it’s also kinda turning me off because I want something more genuine… with more clothes on😂 the thing is everything has been great… but only a few of those selfies just be him shirtless and we’ve only started talking for a few days which is very early for me to receive this much

[boggboss]

If he would have a issue with it no their is no way of asking him and it not causing a issue although to be fair if that's whatvhe is doing it kind of shows for itself how he is treating thi situation

[Asker]

How is he treating the situation? Lol I will try to be polite and flirty sayin he’s a little tease or making me blush, but I don’t give too much attention
So how can I ask him kindly and respectfully w/o ruining the vibe/mood?

[Asker]

Do I say… I enjoy it but I’m hoping/looking for something more genuine here? I don't know what’s the best way..

[boggboss]

Not really aure all u can really do is ask and see how he takes it if he is sending mainly shirtless pics that would for me be a focus of sexual

[boggboss]

Yeah or looking to grow a stringer connection before doing that kinda stuff 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Asker]

Thank you! Yeah that’s what I’m afraid of cuz our talks are great!!! But like…. His selfies…. Be like shirtless…3 times…. And it’s making me feel turn off…. But his other pics wasn’t shirtless so it felt great… but to me it’s too much early on when we only talked for 3 days.

[boggboss]

But this is my thing if he is sending u these pics after 3 days it's clear he is sending this also to all the women he speaks too

[Asker]

Haha right, I figure cuz it’s like a cliche if a man can do this to you.. he be doing this to others and it’s not his first!!! I just wanna build on that bond and development more first. I did sent him a teasing pic for one just for fun. It wasn’t too much in my opinion. Just a bit cleavage with my shirt being cut in that area…. But that’s all… I do dress more revealing by nature for fashion and confident reasons though lol. But I know Guys be taking it the wrong way

[Asker]

But I’ll no longer send him pics like that incase he takes it the wrong way.::.

[spartan55]

Think about how you would take it if he asked you to stop sending so many bikini pics. Form your message based on that. Good luck by the way.

[Asker]

My question HOW do I ask it without killing the vibe?