Guys, Do some men feel like they aren’t the person to protect their significant other because she did not lose her virginity to him?

[Anonymous]

Essentially is it the other guys “task” to protect her and not her current boyfriends? Do some guys feel this way?

[Lliam]

OMG, guys like that make me SICK! Why on earth are you still with him? He doesn't love or respect you and never will. He's only using you as a cum dump until he finds a precious virgin to deflower. But, of course he doesn't expect men to remain virgins. What a sick minded, hypocritical cretin.

Do you have any self respect? Do you think you are "used goods", "impure", or unworthy of love and respect?

You deserve a man who cherishes and adores you, not one who thinks you are disgusting just because you have had sex before.

DUMP HIS ASS!!!

[Asker]

He manipulates me into feeling like I’m a horrible person so he can have a grasp on me… whenever I’ve tried to leave I’ve been harassed via email, text, calls, etc. and then whenever I’ve just not responded to anything after blocking he finds ways to tell me I’m a horrible person and such. I really don’t know what to do and it scares me

[virtue2332]

People are entitled to feel how they want regardless of how crazy it sounds to me. That sounds hella immature and insecure to but to each there own. It does remind me of two toddlers playing and one throwing a tantrum and refusing to play with a toy because the other kid touched it. Would they also be entitled to other privileges since they are the one responsible to take care of her. She isn't property like some people imagine women to be.

[aceleon]

your example was much worse than any objectification. to me guys who settle for those girls are the ones who are immature, saying her pass doesn't matter but ifshe talks about him he feels bad, no guy if they are not cucks does want a used girl and yes that is the term i will use it.

[Asker]

@aceleon a little confused on this comment can I get some clarification

[aceleon]

about which part to be exact?

[Asker]

@aceleon the last half! I’m just confused on what it’s supposed to mean!

[aceleon]

only a cuck wanting a used girl or a guy being immature if he says her past doesn't matter?

[Asker]

@aceleon both! And what is a “cuck” is it just a censored version of a derogatory word to call people?

[aceleon]

cuck: a guy who lets and enjoys his woman (girlfriend, wife, relative) having sex with other guy (s)
guy being immature if he says her past doesn't matter: he either settles for something he doesn't actually want and tries to ignore it like a weak men or he is influenced by an fairly liberal enviroment which tends to have only 1 boundary CONSENT which is absurd, being possesive of our females is a biological instinct that was imprinted into our DNA allowing and even enjoying something like that is against a natural emotion JEALOUSY/POSSESİVENESS it is like laughing with joy when someone makes us sad or angry, it is most of the time related to masochism and submissiveness which is also relatedto physicological issues and decreased levels of masculinity.

[Asker]

@aceleon oh okay! I understand it now! Thank you so much for the clarification!

[sawno]

No that makes no sense to me, who cares who she lost it to what I care about is commitment to me.

[aceleon]

i don't feel anything other than the initial lust a man has for a woman and disgust for a non-virgin girl, sorry not my cup of cake, either i am her only man or there is no me in there.

[Avicenna]

I've never heard that before. That makes no sense to me- why would a guy want an ex-bf involved in her life, especially as some controlling "protector"? That would be pathetic.

[ThrillSeeker01]

No way. Her virginity has nothing to do with it. I love her for what makes her special. Protect any way I can no matter what.

[bededazzle]

that seems irrational on many levels to me personally. she can probably protect herself just fine. but yes maybe others do feel this way!

[DextroShade]

If you as a man are in a monogamous relationship with a woman and claim her as such then it is your responsibility as a man to protect her. If she's not fucking you or is just a side piece then there is no such responsibility.

[exitseven]

That is one of the dumbest things I've ever heard of.

[Anonymous]

That's up to her. I mean if she's offered up the seabass to a dozen other sailors before him then it's her duty to prove to him that she's worthy of him still. If she doesn't want to do that then she'll get what she'll get.

[Anonymous]

Never heard or read any guy say this. I'm always going to protect my girl or die trying, though.

[Asker]

My boyfriend of two years told me this today and I have no idea how to feel or think of it.

[Opinion Owner]

He's probably just trying to justify being a coward. Dump him.

[Twalli]

So I have to protect all the girls who gave their virginity to me?

[Asker]

Lmaoooo I don't know that’s what my boyfriend is suggesting…

[Twalli]

It sounds stupid to me

[Fireguy17]

That just makes no sense at all.

[slatyb]

Protect them from what?

[Asker]

Like feel protective over them.

[Twalli]

I feel protective of my sister. I was probably the first non parent or doctor male to see her naked, but I was also 18 months old when she was born. I haven't seen her naked since about age 5 though. Definitely didn't have sex.

[AmeerX]

I don't think anyone would feel this way

[John_Cobretti]

What? NOO

[Luckycharms12]

No not at all