Is this a Red flag from my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So i stayed for a night tonight

We woke up this morning, i asked if he wants tea... he said yes, in a bit when he wakes up more (he was sleepy)

He was the first one getting up! when i got up i went to brush my teeth etc

When i came to the living room, the water was ready and he put it in the mugs

When he finished with water, he sits on the sofa and half smiling says:

"Now you go put sugar"

So i had to get up and put sugar for us 2 ... i mean.

Was it necessary, it was obvious he did it on purpose because he was bear sugar but decided to make Me do it

What the hell was that?

I did it without questioning or even thinking, but i now start thinking it was made to do what exactly? to make me put sugar why? he could do it too but decided no to

Can someone explain?

[mkkkkitan]

Wowwww if my boyfriend did that i would probably start an argument. No that’s very rude, it seems like his ego can’t handle doing things for you? He has that “ 50/50 alpha mentality “

[Asker]

Sometimes he does tea for me
I dunno why that morning he behaved like that
I said nothing... it was just sugar
But got me thinking...

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds kinda toxic but maybe he was just joking or something?

[Asker]

I dont know
He had a funny smile on his face

[Asker]

But he never did that before

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then maybe he was just joking

[Asker]

Weird

[ChicoFromThe305]

Indeed

[Asker]

He is weir in general
I just posted an ask about other stuff he did

[Asker]

Ill post here for you if you want
Can give an opinion
Thnx

[Asker]

He is weird!
Last weekend he had a dinner with his bosses (one of the bosses was retiring)

3 days before that i asked if we meeting this weekend.
He said he cannot because he has a comittment with his boss.
When i asked where will they go
He said: "I dont even know because im not sure im going, i didn't tell him yet im going"
So im like:..."but you just said you have a committment and We cannot meet.
Now you say you dont know if you go?"
He was mad... made a mad face and mumnbled something. didn't say anything clear at my comment.

We bought some food, went home.
There again we started talking about the weekend.
I was like (being sly lol)
"Babe i can give you a lift there if you want (he has no car)
And he goes: "yeah... we could spend some time together before the dinner, it starts at 9 p. m."
So as we did: I came we had good time, had sex and then i left him with his bosses.

I dont get why 3 days before he went all mysterious trying to cancel me
Like wtf was that.
Why?

[ChicoFromThe305]

He surely does act suspicious at times, the commitment thing with the bosses seems weird, it kinda hints that he was probably lying about something cause before you called him out he seems to have forgotten completely about his commitment, maybe it was an excuse but irk

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't know*

[Asker]

Thats what i thought
Seems like he didn't kn ow if go or not but in case he didn't go he didn't want to see me so he anyways said he is busy
But he ended up going
And spending time togethr and sex before
Was his idea, not mine

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't know what else to say anon but you seem pretty self aware so that's good

[Asker]

Thnx anyways
Have a good day😊

[ChicoFromThe305]

Likewise anon, have a blessed day 😬💯

[ThrillSeeker01]

Kinda rude

[Asker]

Why?

[ThrillSeeker01]

Just telling you what to do.

[Asker]

Yeah... i felt that too