He and I were gonna talk about personal issues we were facing, he said we’ll talk about this tommorow , weeks go by didn’t hear from him… my heart hurt cause I wanted to fix the issue exc. our convo went he came back went like…
Him: Hey I don't need you to feel like you need to vent to me or make something up to me
Me : you wanted to talk
him: I did I’m sorry. It's not your fault that I have psychological issues. I shouldn't give you the impression that that is the case
he also says you may think I never talk to you but I literally talk to you more than anybody else.
so is all this a red flag? I know he’s in AA and a recovering alcholic.