Did my crush reject me or am I overthinking it?

[girlieeeeeeeeee]

so we are college classmates, i know he knows me, we have made eyecontact many times and since i am a very outspoken person in class, people tend to know me and my friends. The only time we spoke was when i called him for some practical as the teacher was asking for him. I had developed a thing for him so i summed up my courage and sent him a follow request on instagram. well, he accepted my follow request, or that was what my notifications said. but when i went to accept it, there was nothing there. i thought that was a mistake and continuously refreshed the page. but when even after a night passed and there was no request, i understood that he decided not to send a follow request back. is this his way of rejecting me? by the way, he has 446 followers and is following 275 people.

[spartan55]

Why don't you talk to him instead of gauging interest by if he follows you or not. (which is retarded by the way)

[girlieeeeeeeeee]

Well we haven't ever talked and it would be awkward if I just walk up to him and ask if he rejected my follow request.

[spartan55]

So then don't talk about that. You will find that if you don't let social dictate your social decisions and stop giving it so much value your life will improve.

[Vikkrram]

Please go and talk to him. That would be really best way to solve this out

[girlieeeeeeeeee]

I can't really. We haven't talked much except for the 1 sentence I spoke to him

[Vikkrram]

You know ma'am the worst thing is that we don't talk to them so we don't know that what they feel about us?

The worst they would say no but now also they are not with us

[Anonymous]

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[girlieeeeeeeeee]

can't deny lol

[ThrillSeeker01]

It could just be a glitch

[girlieeeeeeeeee]

It wasn't. I waited for a very long time and then refreshed the feed. And also Google told that when that happens, it's because they retracted their request

[ThrillSeeker01]

Ughh, I'm sorry. That sucks 😞

[Avicenna]

How about talking to him and seeing how he reacts

[girlieeeeeeeeee]

Ig it would be weird if I just go and ask if he rejected my follow request because we haven't really talked much before aside from the interaction I mentioned

[Avicenna]

No, I mean having a normal conversation with him