Friends with benefits made a joke about how he could get me to sleep with him again? Why?

[Candykanelove]

My friends with benefits told me if I started sleeping with someone else or got into a relationship. We would stop sleeping together and just be friends. Then he said he could get me back to sleep with him again and he laughed. Why would he say this?

[Oliverlogan263]

That's a pretty odd thing for him to say. Makes it seem like he thinks he can manipulate you or something. Friends with benefits is supposed to be casual but also respect each other's choices. Saying he could get you to sleep with him again even if you were with someone else shows he doesn't really care about your feelings. I'd be careful with that dude. Seems like he just sees you as a way to get what he wants and doesn't care how you feel about it. A real friend wouldn't try to pressure you or act like your choices don't matter. Might be time to rethink if this "friends with benefits" thing is really working out or if he's just using you. You deserve to be with someone who respects you, not toys with your emotions.

[aceleon]

he means i can take you away from that dude.

it is kind of a male ego thing. don't let him and all is fine.

[Candykanelove]

What is an ego male thing?

[aceleon]

kinda complicated, search it on internet or ask a guy you know (i asume there a guys in your lifelike relatives) or text me.

[Jerre]

He doesn’t sound like a friends with benefits. I HAVEA NUMBER of friends with benefits and they can screw anyone they want, same as me. I’m fortunate tha most come back to me as I’m good at giving them multi orgasms.

[Candykanelove]

Why doesn't he sound like a friends with benefits? I think everyone is different when it comes to this. Some people don't like having multiple friends with benefits.

[Jerre]

Yes, but he told you if you sleep with another guy, it’s over with him. friends with benefits don’t do that. It appears that he thinks you are more than a friends with benefits.

[Candykanelove]

Some people just don't like messing with people who sleep around.

[HouseMoat]

You're just answering your own question. He's trying to get you back in bed

[ThrillSeeker01]

Maybe he's just insecure, or he enjoys making fun of you. Either way it's kind of an uncool not okay thing to say.

[Candykanelove]

Enjoys making fun of me? For what? That makes no sense.

[Anonymous]

Over confident I guess