Im obsessed with a man and I think im invisible to him. How can I forget him?

[Anonymous]

I stalk him online and it's not healthy he doesn't want me

[SolsticeSnow]

Tbh I'd go get a glow up.

Not for him but to feel better in yourself.

Of course there will be an element of you that hopes he'll like you as a result but... he had his chance.

You beautify yourself and then, you start dating elsewhere. If, on the off chance, in a 6 months (absolute minimum) you are single and he happens to try to hit you up, you can flirt back. But before then, focus on you and maybe go on some dates with other people.

Often people get interested when we lose interest. Not saying that'll happen. Just that, you never know.

But if you focus on making yourself.. shiny, inside and out then you'll find happiness in yourself and hopefully attract some hotties along the way. Even if its not him.

[Anonymous]

Why are you so obsessed? What’s he doing that is so great?

[Asker]

I guess I'm just sexually attracted to him... he's something more I want in my life. He's rich and creative... he's emotionally inclined. Tension

[Opinion Owner]

And basically you’ve just blown his ego all the way up in your head. He’s just a mortal man, rich doesn’t matter when you’ve got your own money and all you need to find a creative man is a creative hobby. My point here is that he may not be as fantastic as you think, and the sooner you stop making him so unique and perfect in your head the sooner you can get over him.

[Opinion Owner]

I kinda feel like I talked to you before, is this the guy you’ve been trying to chat with and he’s not really engaging?

[Asker]

That's too broad of a question... I'm sure hundreds of girls are going through the same thing as me. But you're right thanks for your comment

[Opinion Owner]

They are, but I’m asking if that was you because then I’d be saying it’s even more motivation to get over him, if he isn’t responding in a timely fashion or at all. Also no problem!

[bededazzle]

if you are obsessed, chances are there is an element of fantasy and irrational thinking, not seeing another basic person. accept that you obsessed and set an intention to not be so. if you remain obsessed for a little while, no biggie, but you’ll get past it.

[MrCommodore]

Do you know for certain that he doesn't want you?

[Asker]

To me it's been a long while... enough to where he could of made a move. I've been reaching out and nothing... so I don't know

[MrCommodore]

Guys are less inclined to make a move these days unless they are fairly certain a girl likes them back. How have you made it clear to him that you are interested?

[Asker]

Yes but mostly sexually. That didn't even get me far

[MrCommodore]

Mostly Sexually? 😱

[Asker]

I know smh

[ChicoFromThe305]

Just don't look back, that includes no stalking, no trying to reach out, no looking at pictures, just full not think of the person

[Anonymous]

Have u tried to do anything besides stalking him 😂?

[Opinion Owner]

If your sexually attracted have u told him I like him?

[Opinion Owner]

*you

[Asker]

I've tried reaching out. And interacting with him but he doesn't engage.😭

[Opinion Owner]

Ok if you text him and he not text back move onnn sorrryy

[ThrillSeeker01]

Find a better man.