Why does a man I know keep turning up where I am?

[Anonymous]

This weekend, he’s driven past me two days in a row. He stared out his car window at me today. A few months ago, he was turning up on my bus a few times. He doesn’t live anywhere close by. Is he doing it on purpose?

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+1 y

It was my street he drove past.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo sis, that is hella weird and kinda creepy. Dude be turning up right where you at too often for it to be no accident. A few possibilities I see:

1. He tryna stalk you lowkey and see where you be. Wants to know your routine or somethin shady.

2. Could be he likes you and too shy to approach, so he thinks rollin past and peepin you out is a move. Weird way to show interest fo’sho tho.

3. Worst case, might have some real creeper vibes. Tryna scope you out or make you uncomfortable. Could be some obsessive behavior.

I’d say stay alert and be careful around dude. Let some of your guy friends know what’s up too just in case. And don’t be scared to confront him direct if you see him peepin again - tell him straight it’s weirding you out and to stop.

Or maybe tell a teacher? Just to have it on record in case shit escalates, know what I mean? Keep your guard up sis, better safe than sorry with randos actin strange like that. Holler if you need backup!

[MrCommodore]

His behaviour sounds a bit stalkerish tbh, unless there is a hidden reason you aren't yet aware of, such as maybe he has started dating someone in your area andis spending more time there.

[Asker]

Unlikely…the guy’s a snob. He hates my area and normally wouldn’t be seen dead there.

[MrCommodore]

Yeah but perhaps he met a girl who lives in that area recently or is availing of a service in your area regularly, so he might be visiting for a specific reason. Otherwise he could be stalking you.

[Asker]

Could be either one.

[Billlewis]

Check your car and belongings to make sure there isn't an Apple 'Air Tag' attached to it. That's how a lot of women get stalked, followed, etc.

[Danny_dan92]

Coincidence or he wants to stuff your stocking