There was a guy last semester. He was incredibly smart and extremely outspoken which can be a turn off for some people but I loved it. He made me want to learn more.
It was a smaller class and he always sat across from me ( we all sat in a circle ).
We would always exchange glances and while he was talking he would always look at me. He spoke out all the time which encouraged me and I said a lot of things in class. My opinion was always welcomed and after I did a presentation and he answered my questions and after it he clapped which this one guy, he didn’t clap for after.
I was smiling at him once while he was joking with someone else and he kept looking back at me and smiling. Once we were talking about this lady on a train who did coke and I guessed coke and he was like “yep you got it” and we both laughed.
I had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend which is why I think he never made a move. Although he didn’t mention her until one day where he tried to small talk a little and I said I was gonna go call my boyfriend and after I came back he mentioned his relationship in class for the first time and how it was long distance which caused problems. Also everytime he mentioned her he mentioned how horrible her family was and how he hated them.
Also once he stopped one of his opinion rants on a novel we were reading in class and paused and looked at me and was like “weren’t you gonna say something. I think you were.”
Before class once I saw him in the hallway and we made eye contact and I said hi and he kinda smiled I think but didn’t say anything.
Now we’re back from winter break with new classes and I saw him in the hallway again while I was on the phone. He walked near me and we made eye contact and he smiled and waved at me and I did the same. Today I saw him again but he was studying and didn’t see me.
We don’t have any classes this semester but have classes in the same building. Could his smile and wave mean he’s still interested?
It was a smaller class and he always sat across from me ( we all sat in a circle ).
We would always exchange glances and while he was talking he would always look at me. He spoke out all the time which encouraged me and I said a lot of things in class. My opinion was always welcomed and after I did a presentation and he answered my questions and after it he clapped which this one guy, he didn’t clap for after.
I was smiling at him once while he was joking with someone else and he kept looking back at me and smiling. Once we were talking about this lady on a train who did coke and I guessed coke and he was like “yep you got it” and we both laughed.
I had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend which is why I think he never made a move. Although he didn’t mention her until one day where he tried to small talk a little and I said I was gonna go call my boyfriend and after I came back he mentioned his relationship in class for the first time and how it was long distance which caused problems. Also everytime he mentioned her he mentioned how horrible her family was and how he hated them.
Also once he stopped one of his opinion rants on a novel we were reading in class and paused and looked at me and was like “weren’t you gonna say something. I think you were.”
Before class once I saw him in the hallway and we made eye contact and I said hi and he kinda smiled I think but didn’t say anything.
Now we’re back from winter break with new classes and I saw him in the hallway again while I was on the phone. He walked near me and we made eye contact and he smiled and waved at me and I did the same. Today I saw him again but he was studying and didn’t see me.
We don’t have any classes this semester but have classes in the same building. Could his smile and wave mean he’s still interested?
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Who says he ever was interested?
Literally almost everyone on here lol
Lol, then why hasn't he ever asked you out? Hmm...
'everyone on here'... I'm the only response so nice try.
He literally had a girlfriend. I don’t know if they’re still together but I hadn’t seen him since last semester and he knew I had a boyfriend.
Everyone I've told about this has said so. Either way I think he has to be at least attracted to me
Okay, so what? You have a boyfriend. As far as you know he still has a girlfriend... you just going to ignore this because of this guy? I still don't why you think he is attracted to you. I read your post again looking for anything of substance showing he is intersted... uh.. no. He looks at you, he smiles... I mean come on...
You look and smile at a girl you don’t find attractive?
Like what is he supposed to do openly and bluntly call me pretty? Maybe he’s not that type of guy who’s forward
Attracted and interested are different feelings.
Yes, I do look at and smile at women I'm not attracted to for different reasons.
I notice you are going to continue pretending you are both single. I'm sure you'd be thrilled if your boyfriend were posting crap like this and have one foot out the door.
But there’s no specific reason for him to constantly stare at me like that and smile. It’s not like I said anything to him. Also I don’t think he ever would’ve even mentioned his girlfriend if I hadn’t mentioned my boyfriend because he conveniently mentioned her at the same time.
You don’t know the circumstances of my relationship
Lol... what relationship? Oh, you mean your BOYFRIEND? Yeah, I don't know about your relationship because you pretend it's not there, so how would I know? What does him mentioning his girlfriend because you mentioned your boyfriend have to do with anything? Unless you have an open relationship of some sort, you are being gross.
And what do you mean he 'doesn't have a reason to look? According to who? You? You are taking this staring shit to a ridiculous level of importance, which is pretty funny actually.