Why does he keep popping in and out of my life?

So this guy happens to be an old EX crush/fwb. We have a good sex life, but we started to have problems. We are good now an days, we're just currently seeing other people and he still sleeping around as his usual. I decided to cut The Sex off since like 2017. But yet he still comes around. Now just to get to my actually question: I get it he comes back when he wants some and doesn't have anyone else to sleep with. But why is he so pressed on wanting to sleep with me so bad. I would think that he would just go on to the next girl like he didn't when I don't give him any. Now I'm not sure if he has feelings for me still. But he is always on and off with me, and I get it, he talks with other girls and sex them. But I never had something like this won't happen, so why return when he can be with other chick?
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8 d ago
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Cause u might be the one. That has the killer pussy. Meaning whatever u do 2 him. He can't find it in any other woman. U have the orgasm effect. Cause 2 him their isn't any other woman that compares 2 u. I say give it one more chance. If it don't work u know at least u gave it a chance.

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    • 8 d ago

      But if he is going to leave me for them ho** because I wouldn't give him sex. Then he can keep them ho**. Sometimes I really do feel like, he is trying to plant his seed in me. Like he acts like he's obsessed or something. Even when I tried to let him down before and tell him no more sex he was acting like it was a bad thing with me telling him no. Our connection sexually is good. The damn how much sex can he really want.

    • 8 d ago

      I really want too sooooo bad. Like TMI. I haven't had sex since like last year of 2018. And my hormones are definitely running hot at times. He most definitely haven't been my last. Hehe. But when we are together sexually.. OMG it's like magic making love. And I am scared to get close to him. Because it's hard trying to let him go and detach my energy and the love that I have for him. It's 2019 and I'm still trying to get over him. I mean, part of me has, then part of Mr hasn't. But why he was on vacation with some other girl for a few months I guess he decided to message me midnight because he was bored or either she's not around. And I am not his backup plan or whatever. But no matter what he always runs back to me rather if it's sex or just my attention. I have been MIA off social media. So

Most Helpful Girl

  • He's an orbiter.
    trying to stay relevant in ur mind, get what he wants, orbit away to another girl, return later.
    Kick him out of orbit and send him floating through space unsure of his direction
    u don't need him

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    • 8 d ago

      I like how you put that girl you're very wise and smart. But we haven't had sex in like 3 years. And no matter if he's with another girl he still returns trying to bone. He is crazy

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  • You’re probably easy. He knows he can fall back on you if he doesn’t get lucky with someone else. Don’t subject yourself to that kind of treatment, unless of course you’re ok with it.

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    • 5 d ago

      Yeah I'm not sure
      where he is trying to go with this. But about 5 years! I would think he would stop wanting it. And there was time's, yes I would give him sex.

  • it's called having a back up plan. if you're still there to take him back, then he's going to keep fucking around until you're not there. when you say no, don't come back, he'll stop. or more likely get to a comfortable spot with you in a relationship and fuck around again until he's caught again.

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    • 5 d ago

      Well each and every time I shut him down and tell him no. He starts feeling some type of way. But lately we haven't talked in like 3 months

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    • 5 d ago

      Oh you already did. Hehe

    • 5 d ago

      of course i did

  • He sounds like a basic loser with commitment issues that used you because you allowed him to.

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  • Because he knows you are easy.

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    • 8 d ago

      Well he still hasn't gotten any from me. 🤗🤗🤗

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    • 8 d ago

      Good thing? To who, me? Don't care. It has to be what is important to you moral code..

    • 8 d ago

      Hahaha. Ik. Ik. Ik. He is crazy. Smh.

  • because he want to pop in and out of u

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    • 8 d ago

      Hahaha.

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    • 8 d ago

      tbh you should move on

    • 8 d ago

      by the way can we pm?

  • Umm i think he has commitment issues

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  • He keeps pooping in and out of your life. Poop.

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  • I would would like to pop in and say hello

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  • Either you are too easy or you are very good in bed

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    • 8 d ago

      Will we haven't had sex in 3 year's so. I don't know. But there was a time he did call me easy when we got into a fight back in 2016. He said, your just an easy pussy. Wtf hoe dare!!

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    • 8 d ago

      It happens to a lady friend of mine all the time. They disappear then reappear when their last gf/ fuck buddy has nobody else.

    • 7 d ago

      @Jeff1984 that's crazy smh. People threw day's

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