Why Is It Normalized For Men To Age Shame Women On Social Media?

[Aphrodite801]

Seriously guys age shame women all the time online everyone has seen it. These same guys guys get offended and CRY when women don’t want to date poor, ugly, or SHORT MEN.

I know why

I don’t know why

[Guido]

Social media sites are full of both men and women who are not who they are in real life. They say things online they would never say in person. They pretend to be someone they are not.

Think about this - When was the last time you saw a completely honest dating profile on a dating app. Everything is embellished to attract someone. Many comments ate totally fake and when connecting with them online, you have no way of telling what is the truth and how much is totally fabricated.

The old style of dating is a lot harder but a lit more honest. Find someone you are attracted to, strike up a conversation and ask them on a date. No scouring their online posts before accepting. You find out on a first date if you like the person and want to continue seeing them.

You do not get the shaming in person doing those things.

[dallen209]

I found that most people who do this were (or actively are) being rejected by these women and feel the need that they are giving "revenge" in that they somehow got better but now these women want them or something.

I believe the online community is known as "incels" which consists of people who are rejected by women and for whatever reason they desire sex or feel that it is owed to them.

My sincere advice is to avoid these kind of people. There's no telling how violent they may become when they feel they are owed something when you may not. There have been reports of "incels" hurting women and posting online about it or ridiculing them about their age. Even several recent mass shootings in the USA were carried out by these people who are part of "incel" groups online.

[msfuntastic]

This kind of dribble is always written from the perspective of young and clueless men who have no life experience and probably little success with women. These insecure guys needs someone to degrade, so they pick on older women. The truth is, when a guy gets older and he's not a total loser/creep, most want women their own age. Dating younger feels weird, they aren't mature enough and aren't on the same page, regardless of how they look. Most older men worth their salt would agree. There's always gonna be trolls saying otherwise.

[Rei13]

I always find it funny when a guy who is around 20 makes comments about women in their 30s+ being undesirable like a woman that age wants to date a 20 year old. Same goes for a 30yr old about a 45yr old woman etc lol. Most people go for someone around their age give or take a few years. Honestly I just find it sad. Generally when someone tries to tear others down it is because they’re unhappy in their own lives and it’s easier to take it out on other people in one form or another rather than fix whatever problems they have

[PeteBy]

He's got a shallow view of women and clearly has no clue. Maybe he's been rejected and his pride hurt.

I always dated older women. My first was 9 years older and the second 12 years older. They are far more worldly, mature and experienced emotionally and sexually.

Not to mention there's some fabulous looking women well into their 60's.

Don't get me wrong I'm not tarring all women who were my age as immature but they lacked experience in life and sexuality.

[BoobMan]

Who said that it is? Are you basing that on the wing-nuts you see on this site? Cause that ain't normal!

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Not sure. But to be honest I wouldn't pay any attention to them. I remember I told my mom about guys like this and I'm like "I don't care if I become that undesirable 30 yr. old virgin woman someday." (that they so fear)

[WhyohWhy69]

Only losers age shame either gender. They are generally very lonely, unhappy and cold people, too.

[Paris13]

It's Our Sad Society Today. I Mainly See People, In General, Shaming like Attention Older Models for Going Half naked All of The Time. lolxxoo

[fatcat700592]

I don't know but I'd just ignore it. That's what I do when people are mean to me online or I talk with them.

[Nikki1989]

It is just a few immature boys (not men) that do that on here.

[syncheart]

There are guys that like Milfs. There is even Milf porn. So this is a new to me. I never heard of age shaming.

[HouseMoat]

It's never OK to shame people for who they are, only what they do

[Hermitess]

Because men believe a woman is a useless hag once she hits 25

[Tomisworthless]

Why is it ok for women to shame men for being ugly weird creepy and gay

[WhyohWhy69]

Well feeling a physical threat or having a gut feeling someone is no good is totally acceptable. It’s part of why our species still exists.

[Tomisworthless]

@WhyohWhy69 So ugly causes fear

[WhyohWhy69]

Creepy and possibly even weird does, yes.

[Tomisworthless]

@WhyohWhy69 isn’t it funny how most attractive people are narcissists, sociopaths or psychopaths and very manipulative and dishonest yet all that gets overlooked due to the captivation of their looks but if one is ugly they are considered to possess all the worst qualities in nature due to poor genetics

[Aphrodite801]

Because y'all shame women

[Tomisworthless]

Women shame women that’s why women get plastic surgery and Botox and liposuction. That’s why beauty products for women are so expensive because the markets exploit them knowing their desperation for looking beautiful. Women really don’t know what guys like and a lot of women express themselves in the manner of the men they are attracted which funny enough isn’t what the man is attracted to

[WhyohWhy69]

No sorry. It’s men who mainly do. Look anywhere.

[LiamJHayden]

Poor parenting.

[Carly2005]

Probably so they have us fighting with each other.