Do women acknowledge the aggressive nature of men? Do they try to avoid them when they are in that state?

[ManyFantasiGuy]

Women do understand the aggressive state sometimes a man gets into...

Do you avoid him during that period? What goes through your mind when you see a man ( close to you- like a friend) in that stage?

If you would be on the receiving side of that fire, would you acknowledge that it could most likely lead to your defeat?( not talking about assaults but more like fights).

[On_cloud_wine]

There’s a guy at work (we’ll call him guy 1) who I feel grew a strong attraction to me in a short period of time and began to be aggressive towards another fella who liked me too so I avoided both of them and now that “fella” (we’ll call him guy 2), is convincing him that I’m stupid and no good, that I’m a tease, that I flirt with everyone.

Guy 1 was trying to flirt with me to make guy 2 jealous but I didn’t play that game. He assumed I was talking to Guy 2 until his friends intervened and found out I wasn’t talking to Guy 2, and that’s when they became friendly with each other again. Guy 2 has been avoiding me and acting very avoidant and mean, trying to turn guy 1 against me.

Yes, I’m extremely in tuned and aware of energy around me. I would say my intuition may be stronger than others but I think women in general can sense things on a higher level.

[On_cloud_wine]

I think guy 2 is scared of him. He was very intimidating.

[On_cloud_wine]

I imagined a physical fight amongst the two. Another big reason I was giving them both the cold shoulder.

[On_cloud_wine]

Guy 2 wouldn’t stand a chance so he gave up even trying to court me.

[LazerBean]

Proverbs 22:024-25 Make no friendship with an angry man, and with a furious man do not go, lest you learn his ways and set a snare for your soul.

Proverbs 14:29 He who is slow to anger has great understanding, But he who is quick-tempered exalts folly.


Yes, my father taught me all about hot heads and how such persons should be avoided like the plague because the only thing they are good for is destruction and harm.

[ManyFantasiGuy]

nope you took it wrong, not talking about hot heads who just picks fights.
Rather anyone can be angry someday. What about that?

[LazerBean]

I didn't take it wrong at all. Being an angry person does not mean someone who gets angry every once in awhile. If that were true, it would mean that everyone is angry which would remove the necessity to specify since it would be redundant. An angry person is someone who allows their negative emotions to regularly control them. An aggressive person is someone who allows their negative emotions to control them. They are the same.

[ManyFantasiGuy]

but I never said an angry man. I said a man in aggressive state that's same as being super angry once in a while.
unless you wanted to include religion into this.

[LazerBean]

Not knowing the difference between being angry and acting violent out of anger is definitely a bastard child trait. Seek therapy.

[On_cloud_wine]

Hey now

[ManyFantasiGuy]

you just spitting out bs now. Nothing more than that. Same goes for your comments on the whole page.

[boggboss]

Wtf u talking about mate

[LazerBean]

He's fishing around for validation for his violent outbursts.

[boggboss]

See thats whats crazy yesh everyone gets angry but I have never had a angry outburst with my partner

[ManyFantasiGuy]

@LazerBean ohh really? you know that? and then talk about proverbs?

[ManyFantasiGuy]

To make it clear buddy, it wasn't for any validation.
These are just questions. And it was mentioned that it just wasn't for couples and partners but that once in a while angry state that anyone can get into. Wanted to know how others perceive it but some people just want to talk bull shit.

[boggboss]

Angry state again what u talking about

[On_cloud_wine]

An angry state does not mean an angry man who’s always angry. It means you can get very angry when someone really pushed the right buttons

[On_cloud_wine]

Pushes

[boggboss]

But everyone gets angry thats pretty normal how one acts when angry is different tho no?

[On_cloud_wine]

Of course. And I assume he wants to know if a woman would be turned off by a man so angry, he gets into a physical fight.

To me, how someone reacts when they are angry says a lot about a person. Not everyone copes the same way