Any of you feel like your friend is judging you even when they aren't saying anything wrong?

[Anonymous]

So I have this friend and one example of how I think he's judging me is like when I'm excited about something he doesn't act excited too he just like says mhmm or something like that this is just one example of how I think he's judging me and then also he laughs when I say or do something that's not even comedic, it's like really annoying. I mean is it juts his personality or is he actually judging me?

[spartan55]

I don't think you are using your buzzwords correctly. Him not being enthusiastic about what you are talking about isn't judgement. Maybe he isn't interested in that topic. Maybe you talk about it too much. Could be many things. Him laughing at you is not judgement either. So something has to be funny to you before anyone else can find humor in it? Your examples aren't real good ones.

[Asker]

Lmao what are you even trying to say to me? My examples are just examples sheesh. They're fine examples they're explaining some of the things that bother me when I'm around him. So how can they be bad examples? Lol

[spartan55]

Because they aren't judgement? 🙄

[bededazzle]

either way, i wouldn't take it personally. if they are a good friend to you otherwise, i would roll with that