Do you find my friend being disrespectful?

[Anonymous]

So, I have a perfectly clean house, comfortable, nice furniture. Good shows, music food. I have a friend who never comes over. Nor has she ever eaten anything I've cooked at pot lucks. This friend , I've been friends with for years and never said anything because to be honest, it's embarrassing to say anything. So, the other day she asked if we could meet for dinner. I told her well, that's on the way passing my house and you can come over. She was put on the spot and came over. She is allergic to animals, all animals. So, she stayed but, 10 minutes before we left. I asked her , you always go over Betty's house and stay for hours and she has big huge dogs. That's her other friend. And , she also eats food Betty cooks at her house. She says well, she doesn't have carpet. I say well she has some carpet and she says well. That's leading to the basement. I let it go. But, would you be insulted and why do you think she is like this? I guess I find it to be mean spirited. It really makes me feel weird , inadequate.

[Fuentes]

She see's you as dirty somehow or some way. I know you say you're clean but it's something to do with her thinking that. so either you're doing something that is dirty or you have something that's dirty or she just doesn't like you & is a fake friend and nothing you say or do will change that.

[Asker]

Thanks, no I'm not dirty. I'm a regular person who takes a shower every single day, sometimes 2 x daily. I'm a regular person. None of us are perfect; but for the most part I'm clean. Just like anyone else. Would you continue to be friends with her and just distant?

[Fuentes]

I would never be anyone's friend who treated me like I'm dirty and nasty.

[Asker]

Thanks

[JakeS00]

I would feel slighted about it. Because when you welcome people in your house it shouldn't be disrespected especially if your house is clean and stuff, she's being rude.

[Guy13]

Your carpet smell like urine-pet?

[Asker]

Like I told you. It's clean. No. My cat has never used the bathroom anywhere outside his litter box and it's changed daily