I (28F) met a guy (26M) on Tinder the beginning of the year. Went well, fell hard and he asked me out. Broke up with me 2 days later out of no where.
He asked to be friends and I agreed. Well we hung out everyday for a month but he would only talk to me through text. It upset me and I brought it up on how it was disrespectful and he ghosted me.
5 months later he finds me again and apologizes. We start hanging out everyday again as friends. Then he tried sleeping with me and I said no, we are friends. Few weeks goes by and he tells me that he has feelings for me and we move on to intercourse and just doing couple stuff.
He started acting weird again telling me we are only friends and I need to get that through my head. Even though he keeps saying otherwise at the same time. He tells me I'm immature for keep thinking there is more (he plans dates, does all the stuff, and to me I see how I'm confused). When I bring it up he always turns it on me.
I hurt myself and he came over to give me food and check on me. He never stays over my place and always has an excuse (I stay at his a lot). So he asked me over to watch a movie. Sometimes I feel like a third wheel to his roommate and last night was my last straw. I know I shouldn't be upset. He was at my house the night before telling me things and just being with me. But this time I was over his and he laid down with this roommate, cuddle, caressed each other and went to sleep for the night TOGETHER. I was still in the room. I felt hurt and went home. He is telling me I'm over reacting. Am I allowed to be upset?
