Am I wrong to be upset?

[Anonymous]

Am I wrong to be upset that my boyfriend had sent a private video of himself to a girl before we were dating? He had told me that before we were together this one girl had hit him up and he had denied her. Now I’m just finding out he sent a private video of himself to her. This makes me upset and I don’t know why he would do that and lied to me about it until now. Am I wrong for being upset about it because it happened before we were together or is it justifiable for me to be upset?

[Texasgal95]

I guess I wouldn’t understand why you would be upset if it was before he was in a relationship with you if it was while he was dating you I could understand it, but sit down and tell how it makes you feel

[Texasgal95]

I also feel like it would be like if you found out your significant other created and only fans account before dating you, but in the end of it makes me uncomfortable, knowing that there’s another woman out there that has pictures of your naked body regardless if it was before, but communication is key

[Anonymous]

Why he upset over something he did before you were dating? Sorry he had a life before you?

[Opinion Owner]

**why BE upset

[RedInnocent69]

Probably. Maybe he was embarrassed. Have you seen the video? Are there any videos of you out there?

[MrChinaski]

What happens before a relationship, stays before the relationship.

Live for today instead.

[AI Opinion]

Feeling like your trust has taken a hit is totally understandable, even if the video stuff happened before your relationship kicked off. Your boyfriend's honesty game seems to have taken a nap, and that can be frustrating and make you question things. But like they say, don't let a past blip rain on your current love parade. Communicate your feelings to him calmly and use this as an opportunity to strengthen your emotional connection. Emotional honesty can be super refreshing! 😉✨

[Anonymous]

Yes, I think you're right.