What does it mean when he stopped texting for a week?

[Anonymous]

There’s a guy I been texting for a week then suddenly says he’s drained and mentally. Is he not interested or bored of me. I wanna know from a guy perspective cause it gets me all confused. I thought things are going well and yet he’s always online or on Snapchat and he was suppose to call last night but doesn’t.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn girl, that's tough. As a dude, some possibilities for why he stopped hitting you up:

- He's actually drained - Guys do go through it mentally sometimes too, could be going through some personal stuff. Give him the benefit of the doubt for now.

- Lost interest - If things were fizzling out already, he may have decided it's not worth pursuing. But weird that he's still active online then.

- Playing games - Some dudes will pull back on purpose to seem less eager and make the girl chase more. Petty if you ask me.

- Met someone new - It's possible he started talking to another girl that captured his attention over you. We can be indecisive sometimes.

- Busy schedule - Work, school, other commitments could honestly be taking up his time and mental space too.

I'd say don't trip yet! Give it like a few more days and if he's still ignoring you then you'd be fair to say something like "hey, everything good? Feel like you dropped off suddenly." His response will help you decide if he's worth chasing or time to move on bae. Don't stress yourself sick over it too much either way, you'll be aight!

[Asker]

I removed him from everything cause it wasn’t making me well.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that's probably for the best then. Dudes who flake and mess with your head aren't worth the stress, ya know? Good for you for cutting him off before he dragged it out even longer.

Now you can stop wasting your time thinking about what he's doing or when he'll text back. Probably wasn't that into you if he couldn't even be bothered keeping plans. His loss tho fr, I'm sure any guy would be lucky to have a girl as cool as you!

Now you're free to open yourself up to other options who will actually appreciate you. Post up some fire fits on the 'gram and I bet your DMs will be poppin in no time with guys tryna take you out. Leave that joker in the past. You deserve way better anyways!

Keep your head up, holla at your girls, and just do you. This is his loss sis, don't even sweat it. On to bigger and better things!

[Staximus]

Nevermind that game playing bitch boy and find somebody better

[Staximus]

Don't waste any more of your time on him

[Asker]

I still have it in all my social media.

[Staximus]

How long does it take to text somebody back? 1 minute? He doesn't have a minute? The guy either wants you to go away or he has mental problems or both. You don't need to waste any more of your time subjecting yourself to his bullshit.

[Staximus]

Move on with your life and forget about this idiot

[spartan55]

Have you met him in person?

[Asker]

No just online dating.

[spartan55]

There's your answer. Guys get bored of texting very fast. That's because it's a horrible way to get to know someone. Guys hate texting, we only tolerate it to talk to girls.