We were chatting daily for a month. He has asked me out but we can’t until after next week.
I texted him today. He replied to me asking how I’ve been etc. Then he pointed out how we’ve been both busy lol and asked If I noticed the same.
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Don't over think the situation, just reply No offense, I didn't really notice, too much going on, but I was thinking about you. You are putting a neutral position, not offish with him, but still positive with him.
Do you think he seems bothered about it or something?
the trick is too, alway show a neutral stance in a difficult situation. Be positive about it, but not completely negative about it, the word I am looking for, is playing it cool.
he could be, who knows, he could be testing your reaction as well. be careful, best play it cool with him.
Still you didn’t answer my question lol
play cool with people at first, just too see how they will be with you going forwards. you will be too see what he is like going fowards, much later on, but also listen your gut about him. your gut will be right.
Does he seem like missed me based on his reaction?
look its hard to judge people straight away, you need test him, as much as he might be testing you. You need play it, cool, without seeming your a player.
guys that are players are only looking sex, so don't give sex for at least 6 months, cause if he is really into you, he will wait.
If I really like a girl, I will respect her boundaries, and be willing to wait. Be there has be clear intentions for both sides.
Listen I don't know, just cause I am guy, I don't know every guy motivation and intention, that's down to you, and be careful. Watch his actions, not his words. Players use that on weak women, then women give them sex, and the player leaves them.
We actually come from conservative culture we’re people don’t have sex before marriage. He knows that I’m not having sex with him anytime soon
Ok all I can say is, stop over thinking his reaction. it could be he just making conversation, out of a silly question. Sometimes people say and ask stupid questions, because they don't know what else to say.
Stop overthinking every thing.
just answer his questions, and don't thinking anymore of it. If he likes you, he should man up, and ask you out, instead of testing you.
If you did that to me, what he is doing to you. I wouldn't care, if you can't be straight with me, then I am not going read into your stupid signals and flirting ways. I would just answer your question, and carry on about life, your feeling are your problem. vice a versa.
And people wonder where lack of communication starts...
What?
Don't you know how to talk?
What?