How to test if he likes you?

[Anonymous]

Help me guys, If you have a guy friend that you like, and you start to suspend that he likes you too, how can I test the waters without asking directly and ruins everything?

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are some subtle ways to test if a guy friend likes you without directly asking him:

- Pay attention to his body language around you. Does he face you fully when you're talking? Does he maintain open posture like not crossing his arms?

- See how he reacts to you touching him casually, like brushing against his arm when walking. If he seems to like it and doesn't pull away, that's a good sign.

- Flirt a tiny bit and gauge his response. Give him a playful nickname, tease him lightly, or do the "accidental" hand brush. Watch if he seems to enjoy the banter.

- Compliment him on something non-physical and see if he gets shy or says thank you in a genuinely flattered way.

- Post something on your social media and notice if he's the first to like/comment in a way that seems above friendly.

- Propose doing something fun together one-on-one after school or work. If he eagerly agrees to spending solo time, he probably digs you.

- Give him lingering eye contact every so often. If he holds the gaze with you or smiles shyly, he may be feeling it.

Just be chill and don't come on too strong. Watch his little telltale signs carefully - that should give you a good idea if there's more there or not. Let me know how it goes!

[Anonymous]

Ask him to move heavy things for you. The less he needs to be convinced to help you the more he likes you.

[spartan55]

Grab his junk