How to tell if he likes me?

[Anonymous]

About a 3 years ago me and my boyfriend dated. Wr ended up breaking up and now we are talking again. We always end up back in each other’s lives again at least once a year and usually it ends up terrible we talk for like a month. This time we have been snapping for about 3 months, and we even hung out. We have been going to the gym together and hanging out. But he is very hot and cold sometimes he’s dry and other times he’s super interested. He also tries to make me jealous all the time by talking about other women to me. Does it seem like he still could be interested in me or is just messing around?

[Mr_twoface]

Sadly, I would say he is using you! You, like anyone else, deserve to be loved by someone who will treat you as queen and make you feel needed and wanted. The game of making you jealous is so childish and stupid. Look over your past three years and see the reasons for your breakup, learn from it and keep them in mind when you meet the next person. Personally, and as a guy who misbehaved in the past with similar experiences, I strongly advice you not to go on with this guy. Keep your friendship if you want to but don't allow him to treat you the way he has!

Best of luck!

[SotiCoto]

Why can't people just have ordinary, straightforward relationships any more?

... In fact why am I saying "any more"? Did they ever? What is with all this ambiguity? Why do people keep playing these insane mind-games? Why is this site full of this sort of question?

ASK HIM. NOT US.