Why do some guys do this?

[Anonymous]

Ok so how normal is this or is he either just talking to me when he is bored or not interested….. so okay he starts a text convo and it could be going good then stops texting me Mid convo. I’m starting to sense he possibly has a girlfriend or dating someone on a serious note. This is weird odd to me. And no this is not a one time thing happens quite often. I’m probably gonna stop talking to him soon.

[spartan55]

Because he doesn't finish a conversation means he is with someone else? That's absurd. Maybe he just gets bored with you.

[Asker]

I understand that but consistently doing it like almost every convo lol like he will hit me first then I ask a question then silence for hours lol it has lasted a whole weekend before

[spartan55]

Still don't see why you would think it's another girl. Guys HATE texting and girls can't/won't understand this.

[Asker]

I get it and understand that! I’ve noticed he gets distant and rarely reaches out to me on the weekends that is the main reason why I mentioned that girlfriend thing. I’m probably over thinking this

[spartan55]

Stay away from texting unless you are VERY established in a relationship. If you use it as your primary way of communicating then it will never work.

[Asker]

You very right about that, thank you!

[spartan55]

Good luck!

[molonski2]

Could be a plethora of things , someone calls , show on TV , anything , something distracts him..

[Asker]

That’s true I just find it off I’m the one always being left on read majority of the time like I just asked him how was his day….. then silence

[molonski2]

Look , honestly I think you are reading far too much into this , its just an sms.

[Asker]

Your probably right, I could be!

[molonski2]

Guys dont think of it the way you are , its just not seen as that big a deal , otherwise no conversation would ever end right?

[Asker]

Your very much right thank you, you guys answered my question quick lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe he's talking to several people or doing stuff in between

[Asker]

Prob so but it’s cool

[ChicoFromThe305]

Fair enough

[BLP11520]

Rudeness seems to be the norm nowadays. Inconsiderate of who you are communicating with

[Crankor]

Either way, it's not a good thing

[Asker]

Agreed! Very strange

[Anonymous]

Could be. Or he got bored or he is a junkie

[spartan55]

😂 😂 Love that last reason. Threw me for a loop.

[Asker]

Same! 😂