Do guys actually care if their wife/girlfriend gains weight? Like in her thighs, hips etc?

[Anonymous]

[Yannae]

You see, we all have our personal opinion on what is beautiful and sexy. Some are attracted to skinny, others want her voluptuous. I like her to be average, healthy. My girlfriend is slim has big thighs, hips. I don't mind at all, I find it alluring. She's got the woman curves. I want her to be at a good BMI. I am expected to do the same. Got to look good, together!

[robhazelnut]

It depends on the guy. For the vast majority of guys, if she chooses to eat healthier foods, it will result in her looking better to them than if she instead ate the same kcals from unhealthier ones. It shows mostly in her skin.

[Anonymous]

Probably less than women do. But as with everything it varies from couple to couple. Some women aren't very loveable. And some women are VERY loveable. So my advice is choose your man well and you have a lot less likelihood of running into a problem here.

[JacobJordan]

Yup. A little weight is normal and expected but large weight gain is a problem. I don't have to worry about caring though my wife refuses to be even a few points past the weight she's been her adult life

[aceleon]

i welcome it actually i don't like skin and bones as long as there is no deformation or becoming a whale i'm cool.

[Sonorous]

Nah I wouldn't care much so long as they aren't a circle

[exitseven]

It is enviable as you get older. As long as she stays in shape and remains active. I have gained weight over the years too.

[jarkitor20]

I don't care as long as it's not an insane amount. You're still young and are growing so you'll be fine

[Kingofkings1992]

As long as you don’t look like a human meatball, you’re fine. Most men like a little thickness in the thighs and hips.

[syncheart]

It just depends on how much. Some weight equals more curves, and more curves can be more attractive.

[DextroShade]

Yes we absolutely do just as women care if a guy loses his job or income. A woman being fat is as unacceptable as a man being broke.

[Anonymous]

Depends on how much weight. It's probably fine unless it starts impacting her health then it's probably an issue.

[OddBeMe]

Nah. And we really don’t care leading up to marriage and/or dating. It really is mostly a mind game.

[dolemite58]

a little is fine, if she gets chunky that’s a different story tho

[Staximus]

A little weight is no big deal

[Wise4myage]

Well, I know I would care.

[Anonymous]

As long as she doesn’t look like a beach ball

[Ironic_Method]

I certainly do, yes.