Am I dumb for being faithful to a guy a broke up with?

[Anonymous]

I act like I’m taken. I don’t even want convos w/ new guys. I’m in love with him and don’t even want to be touch by other men never again or with new guys say the same words I used with him. I let him go because I have avoidant attachment, he’s younger and more attractive than me and I assume he only wanted sex since I’m always reading people’s actions even though he acted like he actually like me.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes you are dumb for remaining faithful to someone you are no longer with, he surely isn't remaining faithful to you, it okay to move on, I can assure you better people out there exist, you are still holding on to the idea of this guy, hats probably most likely not there anymore, just move on and find someone better, usually that's how it always works.

[fantasticass]

Sometimes in life we get "stuck". That's okay, nothing wrong with that. It's called grieving. Grieving is a process. You will move forward when you are ready. Prayer also helps you through the grief. Tune into mother nature. Go for a walk in the forest and listen to the tree's. Don't take your phone. Enjoy your walk. And be grateful you are not in a wheelchair. 👩‍🦽✌️

[Anonymous]

Yeah, that’s counterproductive. Maybe therapy is best right now anyway.

[Tharithi]

Same situation as u

[LazerBean]

Yes.