Broke up with a guy, because I felt he was always on me for the things I believe he's done with?

[TwistedDilemma]

Ok, so I was dating this guy for about cloe to 10 months. I'm 23 and he's 29. Some times when I go out and party for the weekend or something, he says I party too much and need to stay home more often. But then tells me to turn up when he feels I should just because he is. He doesn't drink heavy but does smoke a little. And gets on me about spending MY money... the money I work damn hard for. I don't know if he's just trying to look out for me or just trying to be controlling. Some times I think he's like an old man... I don't know.. but took a break , but now I dont think we'll even get back together. What are your thoughts? was this some what the start of a controlling partner? Although, I needed time to think... I still find myself wanting him. Sudden emotion comes over me when I think about us not being together anymore.

[Tokana]

It could have to do with the difference in age. In my early 20's I was a crazy party animal, going out every night and getting stupid wasted. Now I rarely go out to parties and drink a lot more responsibly. He may of simply tried to mold you into what he wanted you to be, but obviously your are an adult and are free to do as you choose.

[Anonymous]

In this case I think it may have been the age difference. It sounds like you are too immature for him, and as a result are incompatible. If you met him a few years from now, then it might have worked out.

[bDizzie]

You guys are at different stages of life. He needs to find a 23 year old who acts 29.