Why would a 16 year old boy have a crush on me if I’m a grown woman?

[Anonymous]

[veganrogue]

Most guys start fantasizing about older women in their infancy. I remember distinctly, I was six years old and I had the hots for my English teacher. She was a lot older (to a six year old), in retrospect she was probably in her early 20's, but even before I knew the mechanics of sex (this was about two years before I was introduced to porn), I desperately wanted to get naked with her and kiss her all over. Plus as young pre-pubescent boy, girls haven't developed yet physcially, so it's only natural to look at a woman with sexual experience and a more curves and be attracted to her. Plus women tend to be more motherly than younger girls so there's a lot going for a sex crazed teenager. All those hormones! I think it's completely natural.

[Xepshunall]

Because you have what young women don't and he wants it. Could be that you're healthy looking and young ladies are too lazy and selfish to maintain their bodies. It could even be that he has no crush but is looking to use you for money after you give in to his youthful charms.

[Apple1996]

I think it's normal for teenagers get crushes on adults because that's what they are looking forward to in the future type of thing. Like their brain is wanting to step into adulthood even tho they are still a kid.

And as everyone else here is saying. 25-29 is still not fully grown yet. You are young, only about 10 years from 16 depending on your age

[Peta2002]

If 29 is not fully-grown, then what is? 50?

[Apple1996]

@Peta2002 probably slightly older like 35+ I'd considered grown

[CovetedDUCHESS]

At 26 you are grown as your brain stops developing

[Apple1996]

@CovetedDUCHESS there's been new research that says it keeps developing into the 30s

[Peta2002]

Are you serious? 35 is OLD. Almost pensioner age.

[Peta2002]

What "research"?

[CovetedDUCHESS]

It doesn't matter late 20s is old compared to a teenager

[Apple1996]

@CovetedDUCHESS 20s is never old lol

[CovetedDUCHESS]

It is compared to a 16 year old.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Peta2002 Are YOU serious? I can tell you about OLD! :) :) :)

[Peta2002]

Asker - Ignorant about what? There are people here who are seriously saying that a woman in her late 20's isn't grown up yet. There's a word for such nonsense; it's called infantilisation. It's when you demean, denigrate, gaslight and patronise someone by comparing them to a small child, and treating them accordingly. It's wrong.

[Asker]

@Peta2002 Girl you can calm down. And I’m not in my late 20’s I’m in my mid 20’s. But yes I get where they are coming from because “grown woman” is usually used for matured women 35+ it’s not that deep.

[Asker]

@Peta2002 In fact im going to block you because you’ve been nothing but annoying on this entire question thread.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Peta2002 I sense that other users probably mean that a girl in her late 20s still has enough youthfulness that she won't have a matronly or motherly image to a teen boy.

[Peta2002]

“grown woman” is usually used for matured women 35+ it’s not that deep. - Asker

Since WHEN?

[Asker]

@Peta2002 blocked

[FenixG45]

Women reach sexyal maturity around 34yo

[CovetedDUCHESS]

@FenixG45 what about men

[Apple1996]

@FenixG45 I agree with that yes

[FenixG45]

@CovetedDUCHESS. Sadly, men reach sexual maturity at 18yo; however, mentally much older.

[CovetedDUCHESS]

It's normal. That's how teens are. They are attracted to grown people

[Anonymous]

Same reason a lot of young boys have crushes on older women. Fantasy. I know I had numerous crushes on older women, especially my typing teacher. Never forgot her name. Older women are usually more developed as far as her tits, her ass, compared to a girl his age.

[AMS700CX4u2]

Look, when the hormones peak and your boners override your parents and religious training. It appears every woman is a possible target. It takes while to fine tune your acquisition systems. Think of Foghorn Leghorn and the Chickenhawk.

[FunkyMonkee]

I had a crush on my first grade teacher and she was married to the principal! I had a crush on my aunt who was at least 15 years older than me. I had a crush on a babysitter who was at least 12 years older than me.

[Joshydavid25]

Teenagers crush on grown people all the time.. I've crushed on and listed after many grown women.. Even as a younger boy.. It's naturally basically..

[Summeroflove]

Probably because you’re good looking or whatever. All I’m gonna tell you is. Don’t catch a case. Don’t do anything with him.

[FunkyMonkee]

Catch a case? What does that mean?

[Summeroflove]

@FunkyMonkee sex offense

[Sirenboobzilla]

It's not unnatural for a teen to have a crush on an adult

[Sonorous]

Because he's part of the same species as you.

[slatyb]

This is nothing unusual. Go watch "The Summer of '42"

[RedInnocent68]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=azl0aeu1sSM

[ThrillSeeker01]

It happens to teenage boys a lot (including me).

[Anonymous]

A woman in her late 20's is attractive to most teen boys, and you would be able to offer him an education, I'm sure!

[exitseven]

Some grown women are really hot and they are also experienced.

[Peta2002]

Why are people here saying that a 25 to 29 year old isn't a grown woman? That's weird.

[CovetedDUCHESS]

I know right, some people think women are still kids in their 20s

[syncheart]

He's extremely horny, and probably likes your womanly curves.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Um , he is Sixteen!

what were you expecting?

[clampfan101]

Maybe something similar to kids getting crushes on their teachers.

[Anonymous]

you are like 27? that is not a grown woman, but yeah that is not normal, maybe he finds you very beautifu since you are more intelligent and elegant then other women.

[Peta2002]

What are you talking about? 27 is a grown woman. An 18 year old is a grown woman.

[Asker]

@Peta2002 No an 18 year old is not a grown woman it’s a teenager. So is a 19 year old.

[Anonymous]

Is this a genuine question or are you just bored?

[Asker]

Answer the question or get blocked.

[Opinion Owner]

Biologically he is ready to give his seed to you (most likely) so it’s a natural occurrence.

[FenixG45]

Are you kidding? As a 16yo, I had a crush on a 25yo married woman!

[Twalli]

He's a sexually charged teen boy and you're a young attractive woman.

[Jmmmfi4]

BECAUSE 16 YEAR OLD BOYS WANT TO FUCK EVERY GIRL WALKING

[Anonymous]

Because he's a 16 year old boy. And you aren't that grown, lol.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It’s very common.

[sheikalana]

He fetishizes about older women.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Older women are better

[Jackblue]

Teens will be teens just ignore it.

[TiaNour]

you gotta respect the hustle

[riverrat3]

A lot of young guys desire women a bit older

[Anonymous]

He wants to bump and grind with you.