Guys, I've had multiple guys tell me that I was their best sex (boyfriends, hook-ups, friends with benefits, etc.)?

[Anonymous]

I mentioned this to a girl friend and she said a guy has never told her this. So I was surprised by how many have said this. I understand that guys may say what they have to say to get what they want, but these men I have a good relationship with and I doubt they would lie to me. Example: one guy lived in Belgium and the likelihood of us reconnecting was very low. Would you tell a girl she's the best sex you've had if you don't mean it?

[RavVid]

Girls have pressured me into saying it by asking "Am I the best you've had". I said yes of course because I wanted more of it and not because it was true. Quantity has it own quality.

I don't remember saying that to the all time champion lay but I think she knew anyway and I did tell her she was a good girl quite often.

I'm curious as to what you think your special skills are that got these compliments? :)

My most sincere compliment is to make the next girl do what the girl before her did.

A couple of girls changed how I fuck forever. Now that is very pinnacle of compliments.

They don't know that of course because I didn't ring them and say "I am making your replacement do that thing you used to do because it was so good. Sadly she doesn't do it as well as you".

[Asker]

I don’t think it’s that I have special skills. A couple have said that I know my body well. I orgasm multiple times which they enjoy. I “feel” different down there. I tease them to the edge. I’m very wet. I’m not just in one position or making them do all the work. I know multiple guys love when we’re in doggy and I let them relax and I do the sliding.

I suppose it’s all of these things but it’s nothing “special”.

[RavVid]

Yes, it will be your package, that is very special. There are only so many variations after all and the whole can be greater than the sum of the parts.

if you tease and enjoy teasing than necessarily you must be very conscious of how your guy is reacting; both physically and emotionally. Doubtless that is where your specialness lies.

A few rare girls seem to have an impressive innate sense and it seems you are one of them!



Once you are hard - if you weren't when you dropped your trousers - a lot of girls flick the switch into receive mode and stay there.

[Fireguy17]

yes you were that great, I wasn't sleeping honest, I passed out because all of the blood rushed out of my head into my dick to join in the fun.

[Truthatanycost]

Even if it were true, it would still amount to nothing...

[Anonymous]

The best sex I ever had was the sex I just finished having.

What did you do for these guys that other girls don't do?

[Alex-Snow]

I would take it as a great compliment. Do you do something to them that u think other girls do not? Where were u when I was a virgin (10 months ago) I bet you could have taught me a thing or two?

[Anonymous]

This is the female equivalent of the guy who believes strippers like him.

A guy tells a woman whatever he needs to to achieve his goal. Same as a stripper.

[adamax]

Maybe you were. Take it as a complement. Enjoy it

[spartan55]

That's not a compliment I throw around lightly.

[spartan55]

Nice humble brag by the way.

[Asker]

Thanks lol. Really asked because I second guess a lot of men and if their words or true. So I am asking sincerely. Thanks for answering, this helped me alleviate my self-doubt.

[spartan55]

Unless the guy is full of shit, (which you should know by that point) then he is likely being sincere.

[Belgie]

No, I probably wouldn't see the point.

[KrakenAttackin]

So, how did you get so good at sex?

[Asker]

I think it was from a long-term relationship I was in. That was my first orgasm (22 yo). Because it was a relationship instead of hook-ups, we could spend a lot of time experimenting and I really got to know what he/men like. I had a friends with benefits before that which was the same routine, but he was another one that said I was his favorite. He said I took his virginity (didn’t realize this until he told me 4 years later). And he would think about me during sex with his new girlfriend. He said he was highly attracted to me for sex/in the bedroom, but I was not the type of person he’d date. He had an inverse relationship with attraction/sex and relationships. 🤷‍♀️

[vj0090]

U must be good at it then

[riverrat3]

Go girl