Society teaches girls to reject their sexuality. Don't do that. Accept it and learn to appreciate it.
Creepy guys are another story and question all together. Learn to joke about it with them or tell them to bug off or find another gym to workout in.
My 2 sisters and I also practice MMA.
Good luck!
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I read all the comments. It seems like you love the attention and you're not willing to find another gym. If it bothers you so much then move to a different gym. You can't control what men do. Even if you tell them not to stare they will stare either way. You can't do anything about people staring at each other. Unless the government makes it illegal to stare at other humans. As much as women want that but it ain't happening. You're trainer is what every other guy does, we stare at women even when we have gfs. That's what we do. Unfortunately women and men dont combine together when it comes to attraction. If you want to train in that same gym you have to dress like a gangster and what i mean by that is in baggy clothes. Why do you think Muslim religion requires women to dress in long dresses? So men won't stare. They understand what's happening. You can't control men and men can't control women. It's how it is
I assume you've already made it crystal clear that you feel uncomfortable with them flirting and staring.
However the solution is to look for female only thaiboxing. Only a few men will have the discipline to disregard their biological urges but few will be able to manage it at that age. You should also take into consideration that some exercises elevate testosterone levels too. Have you ever considered how distracting and challenging it is for a guy at 18 years of age full of hormones trying to learn martial arts with a female that has 'a nice body and a nice and cute face.' You could be just as much as an embarrassment to them too if they have to try not to get untimely signs of attraction. It goes both ways.
Establish and maintain boundaries. If someone does something to you that you don’t like speak up. If you see something say something.
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generally speaking straight healthy males are driven by primal urges to seek out healthy females they find attractive it biology. similar to how straight health females are driven by primal urges to find healthy males who can help her produce healthy off spring. while also helping her to provided and protect the off spring.
while some girls might be going to the gym to better themselves. there are those who go to the gym so they can attract attention from others. so it's sometimes hard for guys to notice the difference between the two types of girls. even more so since many girls tend to wear figure flattering clothing which showcases their bodies.
If you start acting and dressing more like "one of the guys," then guys will stop treating you like the hot girl at the dojo. Because that is what you are (intentionally or not) putting out there. Hell, you spent half this post bragging about good looking you are. Unless you only hang around gay men, you can't have it both ways. And I honestly think you wouldn't want a lack of attention anyway.
I know what you go through, people see me as a sex object all the time. In middle school, I was known as "The guy with the big butt". But I eventually learned to own it. Even after some girl called me a "Big Booty Ho"
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According to you you’re a pretty attractive young girl doing physical activity with guys. Plus if you’re wearing tight clothes while you’re at it then of course you’ll get attention from those guys. That’s just the reality of it. You can’t just want to be one of the bros especially if they’re attracted to you.
That's why there are women-only gyms... :-/
Call these guys out in a louder voice maybe? -> "How is the girlfriend?" You do this ten times in a row, he might get the picture...
Maybe if you wore loose fitting clothes they won't be able to see your fit body. There would be nothing to look at if you did.
It sounds awkward and also like you are the minority there which would make it difficult to speak up on how you’re feeling. How are you finding out these guys, like your trainer, is checking you out?
Let me guess, you wear skin tight gym clothes.
Most guys don’t realize female attraction doesn’t work like male attraction and that they can’t just walk up to u and start flirting with u.
It's most likely the way that you're presenting yourself to them
If you dress in cloth body paint or expose your body, you will be seen as a sex object only
What do you mean by "thaiboxing"?
Tell them not to flirt with you duh
okay? become FAT then
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