Why are the majority of guys seeing me as a sexual object and not as a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I am 21 in my junior year of college. Mostly I get picked on by guys and even girls for an apparent disability I have. However, lately other guys have just been seeing me as a sexual object to want to just bang and leave, and not girlfriend material. Guys would message “😘” and ask for nudes and other stuff from me and I keep having to say no cause that’s not what I want. I’m not the type of person to mess around. I respect myself to where I know I deserve better of being in a respectful relationship with a guy who loves everything about me, not just my body. To guys who are popular, they see me as trash, but other guys just see me as a sexual object. I don’t dress all showy, I dress modestly in a classy way. I do workout all the time just cause I love staying fit and it keeps away my depression episodes I’ve been having throughout this year. Heck I’ve never flirted with a guy before (except my past boyfriend when him and I were together). I don’t get why this is happening and why guys just don’t see me as girlfriend material to keep. My ex saw me as girlfriend material to keep cause he told me I’m very sweet, quiet in a cute way, caring, understanding, loving, thoughtful, and faithful (as in I would never cheat (and I never have and never will)). We never got into any fights because both of us understood each other and made efforts for each other. one day he left me cause he said he wasn’t good enough even though I kept telling him that’s not true and always treated him right. I just don’t understand why guys see me as a sexual object and not as girlfriend material to keep. I am currently not open for dating as this year has really been rough on me between my past boyfriend breaking up with me over 7 months ago and then the random depression episodes with this year. But I’m just wondering why guys only see me as a sexual object and not girlfriend material.

[virgin20]

Well unfortunately you're surrounded by inconsiderate guys who are viewing you as that.
I'm curious as to what your disability is? Just some horrible people might want to have sex with a disabled person for the fun aspect which is horrible to think but it's happened.
But with your ex at least that shows you that there are guys who will treat you well and not be disrespectful to you.
But I hope these guys stop seeing you like this and hope you find someone like your ex

[Asker]

I have a general anxiety disorder, which shows easily and is difficult to control. In social situations, it’s moderate but unfortunately still is apparent to other people.

[virgin20]

Well yeah I think you're just surrounded by dicks to be honest. Just stand your ground and hopefully you find someone who treats you right

[djmzes]

Simple

You show yourself as a sex object rather than girlfriend material.

[Anonymous]

That usually happens if they think you're beautiful and not plain enough to be in a relationship. It bothers me so much when guys think pretty girls only want to sleep around but it's their loss if they think that way

[slatyb]

There are always people like that, and they hit on anything that moves. Ignore them, block them, whatever. You can't trade sex for love or commitment. Have sex when you want sex, and enjoy it.

[mich15smith]

unfortunatly women are often viewed as sex objects, especially if they are hot. But im sure you will find the relationship you are looking for. :)

[CYNIC4ALL]

Maybe presentation, maybe you’re just surrounded by creeps.

[na2398]

Unfortunately, you're surrounded by vagabonds who think of women as sexual creatures. Find someone who knows the difference between love and lust.

[BallyT]

You might giving off ‘slur’ vibes to guys

[gandolph3]

Is that what they see,