Why are guys who are bums the meanest?

[myabe123]

I'm being dead serious, in college I attracted a lot of bums. They're entitled, lazy, and most likely peaked some time in high school. AND all they wanted was a hook up. They say the top ten percent of men is terrible well I think the bottom bums are. The cute ones that all have drug problems, the ones you'd die to date as a teenager but are now on a milk carton somewhere. I've had a better adult experience dating dudes who were nerds. They're usually successful, smarter, and more fun to talk too. Sure theirs that top ten percent of guys that are like athletes or something like that but I haven't been out with those guys. BUT WHY, Are the guys who peaked in high school the meanest?

[exitseven]

There are people that are just born that way. Maybe they were abused by their parents. I was bullied in Jr high school. This kid was 17 in the 9th grade. He used to pick on me a lot. I suppose he must have thought he needed to pick on a fat kid because he felt bad about being left back a couple of times. I also heard his father used to beat him. He never made it to high school. I assume he dropped out. I tried to find out whatever happened to him but he seems to have moved away or died. He was a jerk that was mean to me just because he could. There are lots of guys that are just like him.

[Surely]

Some of these guy might be jealous of the nerds that succeeded in life by working hard. Since they didn’t have the incentive to do the same. Now they take it out on everyone else!
If women were to avoid these people. Then they would have a reason to try to make something out of themselves.

[Surely]

@myabe123. Thank you for the MHO!

[Friendlybro79]

You're thinking too much possibly. Some people are just mean that's it. It sounds like you're painting your anecdotal experiences as a consistent behavior in a specific type of person. Focus on the fact that you are an adult now and since you've identified the group or type that creates those better experiences you've had, realize that's a lot of people out there for you!

[D4nielv]

The easier high school was for people, the less they've learned to put actual effort into their personality.

[ColHathi]

What if they're nerd bums? 🤔 I think that's what I am, but I don't think I'm mean in the slightest. I try not to be.

[TallAnon]

It's called the ego, it's a self-defense mechanism of the brain which attempts to make you feel good about yourself. To do so, it often tries to rationalize that others are worse.

[Nahid1707]

Would you ever leave America if you met a guy you connected with?


You’ll have a better dating experience this year hopefully.😊


i Believe you will.


Respect is important yes.💜

[love_conquers_lust]

They weren’t all that cracked up to begin with.

[Alex8736]

As they say it's the quiet ones that peak someone's interests

[Jennz6]

They peeked out in High School

[Anonymous]

They are angry because deep down they know they are bums

[Erron_Black]

Because girls love bums boys

[Anonymous]

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