Why do men get nervous around me?

[Anonymous]

I don’t mean to make them uncomfortable. I don’t think I’m that ugly either. I’m more approachable than I used to be.

[Joshydavid25]

You're probably a good looking woman.. And maybe you intentionally give off an intimidating aura..

[Joshydavid25]

Unintentionally..**

[Asker]

Thank you. Yeah I have a positive aura and I don’t mean to scare men away.

[Joshydavid25]

Haha in that case you must be a damn pretty woman to make men so nervous around you.

[Asker]

Probably. I’ve been called ugly before but I don’t think I am.

[Joshydavid25]

Well, we probably all have at some point in life.. But that's really the only reason I could think of as to why men would act nervous around you. I mean unless it's the opposite.. Lmao..

[Asker]

People are mean.

[Joshydavid25]

They sure are.. I agree..

[Joshydavid25]

Thank you for MHO!

[Staximus]

Men don't get nervous around ugly women.

[Asker]

Everyone tells me I’m pretty so that’s probably why.

[James_Likes_PPL]

Three types of girls
The “no thanks”:
men actually get really awkward around these girls because they don’t want to put off any signals that they are interested, they also don’t want to hurt their feelings, men freeze up because they just don’t know what to do.
The”one nighters” and “maybes”
Men don’t freeze up at all with these girls. They are most comfortable with these as they just are looking for something short term. They find these women somewhat attractive or very attractive but don’t want anything long term.

The “wife material”
Guys freeze up the most with these girls because their brains get overwhelmed with emotion and we can’t think straight. We don’t want to ruin are chances with these women so we are very cautious and that can sometimes lead us to be very awkward and be “not our selves”. These women are so mesmerizing that we will often just get complete brain fog. This is only temporary and only lasts a few dates at most.

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

Nervousness can be for a number of reasons such as:
1. there is something wrong with you like your makeup or BO and they want to tell you but can't find the right opportunity to say anything that might be rude
2. there is something that they feel the need to tell you that they found but they don't know how to say it such as someone is making nudes of you with AI
3. there is something about the way you look that makes them think you're going to go Karen on them
4. they find you attractive and don't want to mess up their chances with you or look like a fool in front of you
5. there is something on their mind and it just happens to come up when you're around and it has nothing to do with you at all
6. they want to ask you to approach one of your attractive friends on their behalf but don't know if that is a good strategy
7. you look like their deceased mother or sister and they are wondering if there is such a thing as reincarnation and whether they should try and connect with you

[James_Likes_PPL]

Do you want a scientific answer or a emotional psychological answer

[Asker]

The second one lol

[Jmmmfi4]

YOU'RE PROBABLY VERY GOOD LOOKING

[Anonymous]

You must be very attractive.

[Anonymous]

Why do you think they're nervous?

[riverrat3]

Fear of rejection