If a guy has trouble getting 'it' up will it be worse when he's with a woman he truly likes?

[Solstraale]

[NamerOfStars]

In terms of impact on him? Probably- but it depends on the guy. Unlike most other mammals, we don't have penis bones, and so getting an erection is a complex combination of the vascular, circulatory, and nervous systems; a LOT can go wrong. Usually, a little sexual stuff will remind it of what it's supposed to be doing, but sometimes it's just determined to not come out and play.

A guy who sets a lot of store by his sexual prowess, or one in an ONS-type situation, will likely be quite upset; one who's more open-minded will be more able to put it aside, remembering that there are other ways to have sex.

A guy who's with a woman who understands that you need far less hardness for oral than for penetration and will do her best to suck him off anyway will probably love her forever.

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

He's likely to have more success if he is enthusiastic about his sexual partner but anxiety as to how he may be seen by her can interfere. He can just take tadalafil or sildenafil to bypass any physiological problems with achieving and sustaining an erection.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, the opposite would be more likely, he may lose the "trouble" all together and have boners easily again. A body that a guy finds repulsive is an instant boner killer, and the more attractive a woman is physically, the easier it is to have an erection, because that visual is what causes erections (other things also cause erections as well, but thats besides the point).

[Guido]

No, easier as a rule. It's usually medical reasons. Some medications create the problem.. Blood pressure and diabetic medications have a effect as well as the diseases themselves as well.

It is usually a very sensitive subject for a guy and can be horrible when dating. When married its a lot easier as there is understanding and support. When single and trying to impress a woman and not be able to get a good errection is devastating to a guys ego.

[JacobJordan]

E. d has nothing to do with liking someone. He could be madly in love and still not be able to.

[NathanDavis]

that's probably a medical stuff, should be checked

[spartan55]

Huh? Seriously where do you women get these awful ideas? Is Cosmo still being published?

[KrakenAttackin]

That depends what the issue is. Is he gay or bisexual? Is there an underlying health issue (a serious cardiovascular issue can cause ED), is he intoxicated? Stuck on another woman?

[Luckycharms12]

It's embarrassing very much so happened me once from meds I made joke and laughed about it. But inside felt terrible I went off those meds and never had the problem again thankfully

[bowenw]

Yes as he will be putting more pressure on himself to impress her.

[Anonymous]

Probably because men have to “preform” in the bedroom while women just have to be there. Women usually don’t do a thing when it comes to sex unless they have to suck a dick. So since it is so performative for a man to do, yeah, it will be much harder

[FenixG45]

Depends. If the reason (s) are medical, then the problem can probably can be treated.

If the reason (s) are mental, then these can be overcome with time and practice.

[Danny_dan92]

Personally I don’t have a problem getting it up with a girl I’m attracted too.

[InspireGlow678]

No, it will be a lot easier for him. Shouldn't be a problem.

[Solstraale]

It can't create a bigger pressure and a way to anxiety?

[InspireGlow678]

If he really likes you he will get hard. It has a mind of it's own.

[Jerre]

I think it could be worse. He probably jacks off to much or needs to see a Urologist to find out what the real problem is.

[Crankor]

It usually starts as a mental thing unrelated to the girl.

[Anonymous]

I have always found that a cute blonde is the best cure for any issues getting "it" up! ;)

[Ant1985]

I've only struggled ones and I felt really bad

[nawtee_me]

It depends since it can be a lot of different things that can cause it.

[JohnK123]

What’s getting it? Getting what? Like understanding something about women?

[meh51]

It happens when someone has mental health problems or when they masturbate a lot

[Anonymous]

He'll definitely be extremely embarrassed... trust me

[jshm2]

Yes. It's usually medical related.

[Anonymous]

Anxiety and stress are boner killers.

[Forceinhand]

I think it depends on the man.

[andre-48]

No it should be easier

[Solstraale]

It can't create a bigger pressure and a way to anxiety?

[andre-48]

You can message me if you want 😊

[Nice222]

No it will make it easier.

[i_am_an_engineer]

It will be easier

[Solstraale]

It can't create a bigger pressure and a way to anxiety?

[i_am_an_engineer]

If he look at a hot nude girl, it will go up. But if he has medical problem, then he might get anxiety…

[Solstraale]

He got annoyed that I asked if I was the problem. He came back and said it didn't have anything to do with me and that he was the problem. Gave him a hug and decided not to ask more questions

[i_am_an_engineer]

Then I guess it’s his medical issue. Why don’t you take him for check at hospital?

[Slapmynuts]

Absolutely not!😉👍

[In_Trance]

nope

[Loveofpanties456]

Yes it is for me

[Solstraale]

Is it because you know you have trouble with it and that causes anxiety when you really like her?